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[–] Lemvi@lemmy.sdf.org 49 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

I usually take my hourly wage and compare it to the inconvenience. For example, if that inconvenience takes about an hour of my life, but saves me more than my hourly wage, I take it. There are exceptions of course, for example if I am low on money.

[–] LeapSecond@lemmy.zip 16 points 10 hours ago

It also depends how much you like the activity. I'd rather do my job for 2 hours than cook for 1 hour.

[–] remon@ani.social 10 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Yup, that's pretty much the reason I don't cook anything that takes more than 15 minutes to make.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 7 points 10 hours ago

I usually enjoy cooking, which is why I do it. But im exactly like this with chores, gardening, etc.

[–] pahlimur@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

We do this comparison, with the added "will this save money" modification. My time outside of 40 hours per week can't make me more money unless OT is approved. So that time is worth $0/hr. If the actions i do during that time save me money, I try to do them. It massively increases the amount of money we have for vacations and other fun stuff.

I'm also undiagnosed hyper focused ADHD, so that may be why. My wife tells me I can slow down, but I absolutely cannot.

[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 16 points 8 hours ago (3 children)
[–] dusty_raven@discuss.online 7 points 7 hours ago

Woof, I don't know if I could do that. I did six during college, and that felt like a big sacrifice.

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[–] CentipedeFarrier@piefed.social 16 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

I’m pretty broke and have been for most of my life, so I’m pretty willing to be inconvenienced. Only thing I have to my name is a very old house in need of substantial work I can’t afford to do, on a very small town lot, and a car that’s falling apart.

I keep my heat set to 60f/15.6c at most, which is well outside of my comfort zone (I prefer being too warm over too cold). I use heated mattress pads/blankets to make it bearable, as they cost exceptionally little to use round the clock for a month, around a dollar a month vs the several hundred per month my heat goes up when kept to a comfortable temp.

I grow as much of my own food as I can. I know people do the math and determine that home grown somehow costs just as much as store bought, so it’s only good as a hobby, and I genuinely don’t understand that calculation. I compost and mix compost into my garden soil and my food is basically free..? And I recently added a small flock of chickens that eat my plant scraps and food scraps, and their waste is great fertilizer. It’s a nice holistic system. I also have some plants like tomatoes and peppers that grow year-round in hydroponics, the small amount of electric and powder nutrients used to grow them costs far less than the food they produce. I’m working on expanding my hydro options to sell surplus to friends and family.

I use compressed sawdust pellets (like for pellet stoves or horse bedding) as cat litter. It’s basically the same thing as feline pine but it’s $7 for 40lbs, which is enough to completely toss and replace the litter about 10 times per bag, more in summer because I use less (takes longer to dry out so needs to be replaced faster anyway). The litter is compostable, so it goes into a special pile that gets used as yard/flower garden dirt. However this requires that I stir up the litter at least twice a day, to allow the urine to dry properly. Else it just reeks of ammonia.

All food scraps, whether cat food or human food, get saved for something. Scraps my chickens can’t/won’t eat, like raw carrots, onions, garlic, and celery, get turned into broth along with bones. After being turned into broth, the remaining material goes into my worm compost. Anything chivkens can eat, especially cat food my cats don’t eat, gets saved for them. Egg shells get saved (by everyone who gets eggs from me) and used as calcium supplement for them.

If I can build or make something, even poorly, I’ll do that before buying a thing (beer, bread, covey coop, chicken coop, shelves, etc.). If I can repurpose existing tools to do a thing I only need to do once, I probably will even if the task is far more frustrating as a result. I desperately wish we had tool library here so I could just borrow stuff. But no. And on this same sort of trajectory; I’ll do things manually rather than using gas or buying new tools. I inherited a ton of really high quality hand tools from my grandfather, and I use them quite a lot. I also shovel snow by hand rather than putting gas in my snowblower, unless we are expecting a blizzard.

I have more but this is already too long so ima just stop.

[–] laranis@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 hours ago

You're my hero and I will be seeking your guidance in the post-apocalypse.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 15 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Yesterday I transported a seven-foot long, 70# piece of furniture across town by bus.

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 9 points 7 hours ago

Hell yeah!

I declare you president of this club.

👑

[–] KokusnussRitter@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

In a though spot? No new stuff. Rent, food, internet, electricity. Put everything to the side I can afford.

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

English is a tough language. It can be mastered through tough thorough thought though.

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[–] SlartyBartFast@sh.itjust.works 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

A lot, I've walked across a city rather than pay for a taxi

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Hell yeah, that's how I live too. It's exhausting & time-consuming but at least money stays in my bank account 😛 And we've got great legs & a great ass & excellent cardiovascular health.

[–] Asafum@lemmy.world 10 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I live in a tiny garage "apartment" with only a washing machine, no dryer, and essentially "babies first refrigerator" too small to even keep a tub of ice cream in the freezer just so that I don't have to live paycheck to paycheck.

[–] LORDSMEGMA@sh.itjust.works 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Maybe try putting in the ice cream before the baby?

[–] Asafum@lemmy.world 7 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Seriously? I have priorities man! I can do without the ice cream, but there's no way I'm going without a baby on ice. What kind of life is that!?

[–] LORDSMEGMA@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 hours ago

I am a baby first person, too. But they seemed like they wanted ice cream more. To each their own, I guess.

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 7 hours ago

I have no idea, I'm quite frugal already without it being an inconvenience. If I'd step it up a notch to inconvenience I wouldn't be saving much more.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago

I use spotify premium.

[–] yellow_potato@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago

I usually consider

  • how much I hate doing it
  • how long it will take to do vs
  • how long it will take to find someone to do it
  • how much it will cost. The weight of what is acceptable changes depending on how much I need the money at that time.
[–] Quazatron@lemmy.world 7 points 10 hours ago

I will pay to avoid inconvenience.

[–] Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world 6 points 1 hour ago

I'll use an office stapler to close a limb laceration before going anywhere near an emergency room because America is a fucking capitalist hellscape. So, moderate, I guess.

[–] ollie@pawb.social 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

i have been looking high and low for months in my local charity shops for a specific cd, that i very well could have bought online for a fairly reasonable price

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Time is money. You deserve that CD. Just give in & buy it online already 😛

[–] ollie@pawb.social 3 points 4 hours ago

i thought itd be more special to find it in person 😅

either way, theres a suspiciously CD case shaped object wrapped under the Christmas tree, so we shall see :3

[–] M33@piefed.world 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It depends on how much money you make, right ?

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

Yeah this question is for us 99% of the population who are poor people because we work full-time but our employers will only pay us enough to need to keep returning to work every day.

[–] M33@piefed.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Sadly it’s true

[–] wingsfortheirsmiles@feddit.uk 6 points 8 hours ago

I'm fortunate enough that I have no issue covering essential expenses, so I've setup an automatic transfer after payday to move some of my wages to a savings account. In other words, I don't have to inconvenience myself at all to save

[–] Serinus@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago

Enough to use the stupid fucking fast food apps that need to ask which location I'm ordering from six times and every screen takes two seconds to load.

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[–] kubica@fedia.io 5 points 9 hours ago

I don't think that the question aligns that much with how I usually think, I usually think of spending as the inconvenience itself.

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Honestly not much generally, life is for living, I'm privileged enough to be in a decent paid job that affords me that luxury. Though if I'm on a run of not saving for a few months, it's time to find something to dial something back a bit, because that's a sign I'm potentially living unsustainably

I learned the hard way when I was younger that living financially sustainably should be priority one, every month you live unsustainably is at least a couple of months it'll take to climb out of the hole. And once you're pretty deep things take their toll on your happiness

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It kinda depends on the domain. Some tools I could buy to make my life easier would be nice, but I can't justify the cost vs how much time they would save me. On the other hand, certain things that are hard on my back, knees, etc. are bought quickly especially in my mid 40s now.

For travel, anything domestic I will make some sacrifices, but maybe not all of them (night busses are still iffy). International where my but is in a seat for 15 hours (to fly to visit my parents every few years), I go with a decent one.

Bed-related things get priority for money since I'm spending 1/4 to 1/3 of my day in the thing and my body isn't what it used to be. Office chair is about to be on that list as well, though I've been putting it off for ages (and increasingly feeling it for a bad height match to my desk).

I only buy new devices when it really becomes an issue for core usability (from phones to PCs to vehicles to farm equipment). I would rather repair or limp along with it until it dies or I can't stand it anymore. At that point, I will usually by the newest (PC or phone) or very recent used (vehicle/equipment).

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

my body isn't what it used to be. Office chair is about to be on that list as well, though I've been putting it off for ages

I found a (used) standing desk was roughly the same cost as a good office chair, and I'm very happy with my choice for the desk. I stand up about 6 hours out of the day, and it's been great for my back and feet.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 1 points 6 hours ago

My desk raises and lowers but I actually don't work as well standing for some reason and there's pain. When I work outside (I'm a farmer as a second job), I don't typically have pain but I'm also not standing still

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 hour ago

I almost never order snacks or fast food delivered, cheaper to walk to the store if I want it

[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 3 points 9 hours ago

If I can save money I probably will. Rarely I consider it an inconvenience though.

[–] viking@infosec.pub 3 points 1 hour ago

I'll take a bus for 1h rather than pay a taxi to get someplace in 10 min to save $40.

I'm a musician, and not a particularly successful one. So I inconvenience myself a lot, all the time, to save money.

More dependent on how much money. $100 is a lot for me in general, so I'll definitely go out of my way. $20... Maybe, depending how much inconvenience and how much the remaining price is. I'll never under any circumstance inconvenience myself over less than $5, because I can't fathom a situation where $5 saves my life. Maybe if my entire family died.

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 2 points 9 hours ago

I will pay to avoid inconvenience. I work a stressful job, I won't sacrifice what little free time I have to do things like decorating.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 2 hours ago

My tolerance for inconvenience is rather low.

[–] zout@fedia.io 2 points 10 hours ago

I'm currently renovating the toilet, I'm not going to pay someone else € 3500 for six days of work (six for me).

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