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I usually add some useful context in the post-body of the posts I make.

Sometimes, it's rather apparent when someone replies (typically antagonistically) without realizing that I've already addressed their concern in the body of the post that they decided not to read.


Strive to be more than a knee-jerk reaction.

  • me, 20+ years ago.
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[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 29 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

If there's text in the body, I'll always read it.

Now a better question is if you asked us if we read the linked article before commenting lol.

[–] Dalacos@lemmy.world 13 points 3 hours ago

Now a better question is if you asked us if we read the linked article before commenting lol.

Touché.

(I typically don't, myself. I look for a reply that gives me a tl;dr of it.)

[–] abbadon420@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago

I don't read the article if there's any kind of paywall, advertisements or too complicated gdpr shit. Otherwise I at least try to skim the article.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 20 points 4 hours ago

It depends on how funny of a joke I can make from just the headline.

I'd say it's 95/5... I usually read the whole post or skim read it at least before replying, but sometimes I'll start typing and realize the post was very different from what I thought it was halfway through my rant, so I just discard it before posting (a couple of times I didn't though).

[–] obinice@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Reading the title takes too long! I conduct a post vibes séance and respond based off that, namaste

[–] Dalacos@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Please reply to my ask-ouija post.

[–] actionjbone@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 hours ago

I'm always honest! Also I don't always finish reading the title.

[–] chaosCruiser@futurology.today 5 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (2 children)

Rule 1. Never read the article.
Rule 2. React with emotion.
Rule 3. You’re always right.
Rule 4. Anyone who disagrees with you, is always wrong.

At least that’s pretty much how Reddit works. I guess many people imported the rules when they emigrated.

[–] Dalacos@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Good.
F'n.
Answer. (to this post)

[–] MurrayL@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

You forgot rule 5: If you can’t think of anything insightful to say, be sarcastic and dismissive instead.

So many people here (as on Reddit) seemingly can’t resist the urge to drop an oh-so-clever zinger so they can watch the updoots roll in with zero critical thinking skills required. It’s tragic.

Usually it’s combined with rule 1, so they’ll be reacting to something in the title without realising the article explained what they’re griping about. Confidently incorrect, always.

[–] FritzApollo@lemmy.today 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

If the title is clickbaity or deliberately void of context, I scroll past. If the title gives a reasonable idea of what the context is, I read on.

[–] Dalacos@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

TBF (to myself) I sometimes use a clickbaity title if I think it sounds good.

[–] FritzApollo@lemmy.today 1 points 3 hours ago

No problem. I'll just scroll past it. 👍