EDIT: I’m a dummy idiot.
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One day she randomly decided to visit my home when I was living with my dad. She was like my very first real girlfriend and real ex. But she was also one of those people who couldn't decide for herself as to whether she was done with anyone or not completely. But I was open to chances at the time.
Anyways, she randomly came to my home, with her dad parked on the other side of the driveway. There was no violence or anything, I think we were a bit of time removed from our breakup so we allowed things to let time and whatnot decide itself. My dad was gone for however long and I knew he didn't like the idea of any visitors coming over and didn't seem keen on me having relationships (for some reason).
So we are talking, I'm trying to understand her and why she came over. Over the period of an half hour though, we'd be upstairs and I noticed she has tried multiple times into seducing me into fucking her. Rubbing her ass against my thigh, allowing me to grope her and everything. For all I knew, she was just tempting me to come back to her and we can restart whatever flinging and whatnot our relationship had going. After all of that, I had to remind her that my dad was out and could come back any moment, additionally I was thinking about her father too as to what the hell he's probably thinking being here in this random ass encounter. Not like I knew him well.
She took the hint and finally decided to leave, before leaving me with something to think about and to talk sometime. Quite frankly, I still feel like this was a bullet dodged because I think she was trying to seduce me to fuck her in my home, to get some blackmail on me. Because we never got back together after this, we never had anything close to this again either. On the other hand, if I had a vasectomy and know I'd never get anyone pregnant, I probably would've caved into having sex with her. But then again I knew her well enough that even if that was the case, she'd probably scream rape.