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[–] village604@adultswim.fan 30 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Anything that separates you from the ground. Shoes, mattress, tires.

[–] pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 16 hours ago

Socks, chairs, houses

[–] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 20 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Food, cocktails, occasional fine dining.

[–] MirthfulAlembic@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Definitely agree on occasional fine dining. If you can afford to save up for a really nice splurge meal every once in a long while, it's absolutely worth it. The key is to find a place that is truly actually good and not pretentious or Instagram hype. But when you do, the combination of incredible food, drinks, and service can reinvigorate your zest for life.

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[–] Whitebrow@lemmy.world 19 points 19 hours ago (4 children)

Dumber tech that works without internet/network/bluetooth/account or stuff that I can connect to HA.

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[–] makeshiftreaper@lemmy.world 18 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Paprika. The grocery store stuff may as well be red glitter for all its flavor. I go to specialty spice stores to buy a premium paprika so it actually has taste

[–] SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 3 points 18 hours ago

Agree on commercial paprika being little more than food colouring.

[–] KokusnussRitter@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Food. Could I survive on rice/ potatoes/ pasta with veggies? Surely. But do I want to spent 10 bucks on ingredients for my favourite homemade food? Yes.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (2 children)

more like 100 bucks.

10 bucks buys me like 1 lb of decent chicken these days. good chicken is 20

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[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 15 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Not personally, but my parents would pay much, much more for cooking utensils than what "it's worth". They live in China, and I don't think the locals (especially their generation) trust Chinese manufacturing that much... so for anything food- or health-related my parents would just get stuff from say Japan, the US, or the EU. Quite sure mom side still insists on buying kitchen knives from Zwilling whenever she's traveling

I guess this is becoming more relevant now that Temu is a thing

[–] MotoAsh@piefed.social 7 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

I dunno', with all the chemicals around food and microplastics stuff, I'd say they're pretty wise for getting good tools.

Also she has good taste if she's getting Zwilling. Good and pricy, but arguably worth the price if affordable.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 4 points 15 hours ago

Victorinox is a decent affordable alternative. I've used my chef's knife basically daily for almost a decade and I still haven't had to sharpen it (although I do hone it occasionally)

[–] U7826391786239@lemmy.zip 11 points 18 hours ago

coffee. pretty much every local roaster within 50 miles of me has a better dark roast than 99% of the grocery store crap, which is also usually already stale when they stock it on the shelf

[–] dditty@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Fiber Internet. Synchronous gigabit up and down with no datacaps is a must. My ping in fps games is like 9 ms and it's amazing. My homelab uses a bunch of data each month and as someone who's chronically online it's been such an awesome luxury after growing up with crummy dialup and DSL

[–] CaptainPedantic@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

I wish I could get symmetrical gigabit. I'm stuck with Comcrap: gigabit down, 40 MBPS up with a datacap. My apartment complex has a deal with Comcrap, even though they just installed fiber down the street from us.

[–] ITGuyLevi@programming.dev 5 points 21 hours ago

AT&T bogged down my neighborhood for 6 months running fiber and I can finally have it, I just have to sell my house and move across the street because the 16 houses on this side are just a gap too far.

[–] LeapSecond@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago

Also picking an ISP that actually has a reliable connection even if everything else about their service sucks, including the price.

[–] humble_boatsman@sh.itjust.works 9 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 5 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

How much do they charge and how much would you rather be paying? Asking as a contractor.

[–] dmention7@midwest.social 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I know you're being somewhat tongue-in-cheek, but being an honest, trustworthy, and genuinely pleasant person to deal with will let you get away with at least a 10-25% premium in my opinion (depending on project size). More importantly, if you can deliver that service without charging too much of a premium, you'll be the first, and maybe only, person I call or recommend for the next project.

[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 5 points 19 hours ago

No, I'm actually being very serious. I'm self-employed and started my business 2 years ago from scratch with nobody to ask advice from. Everything I do is based on my own judgement, not on a "this is how others do it too" mindset - including my pricing. That's why I'm asking; I'm curious to hear about people's expectations. I don't have any peers to compare my practices to, so I'm only relying on customer feedback. Close to half of them have called me back to do another job, so I guess I'm at least doing something right. I just want to make it a win-win situation as much as possible. I know from personal experience what a nightmare it can be to try and find a quality contractor, so that's the niche I'm trying to fill.

[–] humble_boatsman@sh.itjust.works 4 points 19 hours ago

Enough to make it feel like a punch in the gut. And then they schedule months out. Why do I do this? Two reasons, one i know they have already priced in all the headaches that they deal with on a daily instead of bullshitters who act like it is no big deal and two because once they start I know they will stand by their work and resolve any reasonable unforeseen/ concerns for the price they quoted. Real talk? Im a little lazy trying to get multiple people out and try to price around. If they show up for a quote when we scheduled it and know what they are talking about I pay.

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago

The cheapest contractor usually does the lowest quality of work. Same thing with availability, if they have openings today, there's a reason for it.

In my experience paying a cheaper contractor just compounds expenses in the future, because you then have to pay what you should have paid to get their mistakes repaired.

[–] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

1st class train tickets. More comfortable, more space and no seat neighbour is way worth it on longer journeys.

[–] lemmy_outta_here@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

i traveled business class for a job interview one time (the employer paid). what a difference! i got a meal, and it was actually good.

side note: i ate chicken tikka masala in my white interview shirt (nerve-wracking), but i managed to avoid spilling :)

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 3 points 16 hours ago

Spicy food on top of interview nerves? Don't get me wrong, I love a good curry, but for me that'd be tempting fate.

And it wouldn't be my shirt I'd be concerned about soiling.

[–] StrawberryPigtails@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 22 hours ago

Avoiding the usual toilet paper and paper towel answers, Bluetooth speakers.

Decent sounding ones can be had dirt cheap, but I've found that ones made by power tool brands tend to last longer and be more reliable when abused. I'm more than happy to pay double price if it will last me 4 times as long before it fails on me. I haven't had my current one very long, but the last one lasted almost 6 years of genuine abuse before it died after falling into a vat of used motor oil. The usual life span for bluetooth speakers is about 6 months (general abuse) to a year or two (battery failure). I'm a bit rough on my kit.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 7 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (11 children)

The reverse: I pay more for a worse experience haha. Illegal weed is cheaper and more convenient, they deliver to the door 24/7. But I'd rather not contribute too much to that economy, despite the legal industry having a worse experience.

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[–] ptz@dubvee.org 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Probably power banks. I pretty much only buy Anker these days because I've had too many cheap/no-name ones just fail, turn into spicy pillows, flat-out lie about the capacity, and/or, in one case, actually catch on fire.

One of my Anker power banks was recalled, and they notified me as well as had the replacement to me within 2 days. And the replacement model was actually nicer than the one I had.

I guess anything, really, that is part of my everyday carry and has a potential to burst into flames is grounds for paying the "premium" price where there's good quality control and product support.

[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 6 points 1 day ago

If you're paying for it then clearly the quality/experience is worth it to you, no?

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 6 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

High quality Greek yogurt. The flavor and texture is very much noticeable.

I’m starting to realize high quality organic coffee is a thing too.

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[–] DemBoSain@midwest.social 5 points 23 hours ago

I stopped going to the theater unless what I want to see is on IMAX. The screen is bigger, the seats are comfortable etc etc. Everything else I can watch at home.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

screens.

i used to buy cheap monitors, tvs, phones. but now I'd rather pay way more because it's so much nicer to look at and easier on my eyes. everything i buy now is high end. i don't care about the specs, but i care about how nice and relaxing the image quality is.

a $600 monitor isn't functionally better than a $150 one, but man it's so much easier to look at.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 5 points 15 hours ago

Frozen custard over regular ice cream. I’m semi lactose intolerant and for some reason I can tolerate Andy’s Frozen Custard Concrete over a DQ Blizzard. The former just makes me gassy and have thunderous farts, but the latter gives me straight up diarrhea.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 hours ago

Nothing. If I'm paying for it, it's worth it. Convenience, quality, durability, whatever the reason I paid a high price for something, it's worth the price. If it isn't, I don't buy it. There are things that I buy which are more expensive than other options, sure, but that expense is justified. I paid over $1000 for a washing machine, because it will last longer than the string of cheaper machines I would buy instead, which would add up to more than what I paid; not to mention the value of my time and energy in dealing with replacing a broken one.

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

I choose a 500€ phone with the stats of a 100€ china phone for repairability and longlivety, also put a lineage based android on it.
Still have it after 5 years and getting security updates for a long enough time that it could hold out longer than 500€ in china phones.
Still havent had a reason to fix it, maybe open to let the water out but nothing else.
(Its fairphone but i consider a shiftphone as my next some time in the future)

[–] sleepmode@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

IEMs. Or speakers in general. I previously bought the cheapest cheapo crap and didn’t give much thought past “mmm bass go brrrr.” Then I spent a little extra on a nice set and sat for hours re-listening to albums just gobsmacked by the clarity alone. Lots of snake oil in the industry though.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

Meat, stuff for sleep, cheese

[–] tomi000@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

I think your question is a bit contradicting. Most people would agree that when something is not worth it, you dont/shouldnt pay for it. Its the principle capitalism uses to maximise profit. What I guess you mean is what are things that we pay more for instead of using cheap alternatives? If so, then my answer is basically everything that I dont buy second hand.

Food for better quality, taste and climate footprint (Bio quality).
Fruit juice, there is an insane difference in taste.
Electronics for usability, longevity (less trash) and of course quality.
Furniture for longevity, reciclability.
Tooth paste, creams, medicine, anything that goes inside my body for obvious reasons. Important to note that some stuff (esp. medicine) is exactly the same just 10 times more expensive because of brand names. In that case I dont bother.

Recent examples:

  • Fairphone (totally worth it when considering I can just replace parts instead of buying a whole new phone every 4 or so years, will easily last me the promised 8 years of promised software updates and probably longer)\
  • Washing machine and dryer from miele for 1000€ each. They feel so high quality, pleasant to use and will probably last 30 years.
[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 3 points 21 hours ago

It sounds to me, from the answers, that period are spending more for all the things they are listing because they are worth it to them. That they are answering no differently then if the question was "what's worth spending significantly more on"? (That's how "worth" actually works, so I'm not sure how one would answer this question accurately.)

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