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Yorkshire tea is the only English tea allowed in my house.

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

A pretty silly one but...

AMD because they are better supported in Linux in my experience. I dropped Intel and Nvidia a while back now.

Similarly, I have had better experiences with MSI for both motherboards and GPUs more recently than any other brand. ASUS was a long go-to for me but has failed me a lot more in the modern era.

[–] jabba@feddit.uk 4 points 23 hours ago

I had to go for Nvidia last time as I needed a smaller form factor GPU which AMD didn't seem to have at the time, but hopefully will be able to get back to AMD.

Agree that ASUS appears to have gone a little downhill.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 4 points 23 hours ago

Amds are beasts too. It's unfortunate they aren't competing with top tier because they freaking brought it with the 6900xtx. Beats my Nvidia hand over fist.

Only place I recommend Nvidia right now is if you're doing AI workloads with CUDA - and even then amd is catching up

[–] piccolo@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

Only bad thing about amd gpus is the video transcoders are the weakest from the options. My jellyfin server, I installed an Arc a380 for $99. Cant beat it for the transcoding performance at that price.

[–] fjordo@feddit.uk 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Sensodyne. Too many fizzy drinks as a teenager, unfortunately.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 4 points 20 hours ago

That does nothing to me. I can't even let cold tap water touch my teeth - let alone chilled beverages.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 14 hours ago

Same, also because it doesn’t have Sodium Laurel Sulfate, which gives me HORRID mouth ulcers!

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 16 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

Honda, Toyota, Mazda, (and maybe Mitsubishi) in that order.

I refuse to buy any other brand of vehicle if I can avoid it.

This a result of growing up in shops, working on every brand available in the US, and a large family having owned or driven pretty much everything out there.

American and European cars are just garbage in comparison. Even Mitsubishi is better (and they were really diminished by the Chrysler merger).

Along with the car theme, Nokian tires if you live in a climate with real winter.

Milwaukee cordless tools, but only because I like their vast variety of tools that use the same battery. I've had other brands that have been fine (and I'm not nice to the tools): Dewalt (still have some 20-year old tools with Milwaukee adapters), the store brands from Home Depot and Lowes, etc.

Work clothes: Carhartt is really hard to beat, but Dickies are damn good too.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 14 hours ago

I loved my Honda, I loved my Toyota, and I currently LOOOOVE my Mitzu. Honda died of natural causes at 230k miles. Toyota was hit so hard his wheel fell off when my partner and I were drunk as hell… in our bedroom, playing games. He was parked outside on the street. I no longer do street parking.

Mitzu I’ve had for oh gawd, six years now. She’s killin it. Nicest car I’ve ever had, and she’s from 2015 so no spyware. Maybe 70k miles now. I hope I keep her forever.

[–] AtHeartEngineer@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

Idk about Toyota now, I just got a new Toyota (a pretty expensive one 2x my last new car 10 yrs ago) and they are making some bad choices. Their infotainment system is terrible, their app is terrible and costs a monthly fee, Android auto drops all the time, and I've blown 2 fuses already doing pretty normal stuff.

[–] TehBamski@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago
[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Unpopular take on Lemmy: Apple phones.

I had the first Android phone (HTC Dream) and it was magical. I used Android until my partner got an iPhone. I played around with it and fell in love. Bought an iPhone 5 as my first one and had it for 4.5 years. It had some issues (defective battery, power button broke) which were fixed for free from Apple. My last phone was an iPhone XS Max, which I had for over six years. No issues, original battery. Still fast as hell when I upgraded to a 16 pro max. I only upgraded cuz I wanted 120hz, more space, and better low light pics of my cats (which holy shit, the camera)

I don’t use iTunes for anything but backups… I love that it has a one-click encrypted incremental backup. Plug my new phone in, it’s exactly like my old phone.

I just don’t wanna fuck around with my phone to install a custom ROM. I want it to work with zero effort (and I don’t use any Google services.) I have four Windows machines and three Linux boxes I use every day, if I wanna fuck around, I play with those. I want my phone to be super easy and fast and last forever.

[–] TheFriar@lemm.ee 2 points 1 hour ago

I gotta say, as a long time android user, when I had to start relying on my phone for work, I was forced to switch to Apple and it’s just a better build. The hardware quality is much better and you can feel it.

[–] BroBot9000@lemmy.world 8 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Sadly I learned the Yorkshire tea bags release microplastics along side all other major tea brands. (Yorkshire tea was super solid and my go to till that point)

Switched to loose leaf and haven’t looked back.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 8 points 22 hours ago

loose leaf ftw ;)

I have one box of tea bags, in case someone really insist on using that but we buy our tea in bulk from Dammann Frères, a well-known and rather old brand here in Paris. It's kinda expensive, but so effing worth it. Just thinking about it makes me want to prepare a cup of tea for my spouse and I ;)

[–] schoegge@feddit.org 4 points 23 hours ago

Honestly, even cheap loose leaf tea is better than whatever brand bagged tea. It's the preparation that makes a huge difference.

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 day ago

Yamamotoyama oolong tea is tasty, ubiquitous and cheap.

[–] UncleArthur@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's Tetley Tea or nothing.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you bring it to my house, I'll throw you out haha

[–] UncleArthur@lemmy.world 8 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Ha! If you're going to serve up Yorkshire Tea, I ain't coming.

[–] xrun_detected@programming.dev 7 points 19 hours ago

Wera for screwdrivers and wrenches. Best tools I ever had.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Knipex makes the best pliers and Savotta is among the best camping/military gear manufacturers. Other than that, I can't really think of anything else I'd be buying based on the brand.

[–] Unimperfect@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Came here to say Savotta. Made in the EU, with top notch materials. Also agree about Knipex (I only have a wire cutter which I use for my guitar strings, but damn is it nice).

[–] frankspurplewings@lemmy.world 6 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Cholula hot sauce. Always.

[–] OpticalMoose@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I'm torn between that one and Tapatío.

[–] frankspurplewings@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

Tapatio is good, but Cholula has more flavor.

[–] Gold_E_Lox@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 hours ago

first thkng i thought of lol, im lucky where i live there are lots of local chilli sauces, but damn if cholula isnt kinda just perfect on everything

[–] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

My tea brand of choice is Stash... mostly because they're semi-local but they also make great tea.

Most of our dairy comes from Tillamook.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

That's Tillamook you fucking philistine. 😜

Their aged white cheddar is to die for.

[–] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 22 hours ago

Thank you. Fixed

[–] iii@mander.xyz 6 points 1 day ago

I rarely drink lemonade, but when I do it's tonissteiner.

[–] zabadoh@ani.social 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Allegra. Generic fexofenadine gives me heartburn.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, that's interesting. I wonder why?

[–] zabadoh@ani.social 2 points 16 hours ago

Cheap inert ingredients maybe?

Heartburn is a listed side effect of fexofenadine, but for me, it only happens when I take a generic version.

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 5 points 17 hours ago

Crocs. Actual Crocs ^TM^ are like walking on a cloud of happiness; knock-offs are like walking with shoes made of dried-up old chewing gum.

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 5 points 23 hours ago

North face. It's probably advertising but after rotating between a dozen coats over the past 15 years, North face was the only one that looks stylish, is extremely durable, and kept me, my neck, and my mouth warm.

[–] Noctis@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Merrell shoes, nothing else feels half as comfy to me.

[–] BevsDad@lemmy.ca 2 points 16 hours ago

But their boots barely last a single winter.

[–] casualfribsday@lemmy.world 4 points 23 hours ago

These things fall into two categories—stuff that you buy because the quality is unquestionably higher than alternatives, and stuff that may or may not be a little bit better than alternatives but that you have strong, minimally-rational feelings about.

I find the second category more fun to talk about, so I offer up the fact that this is a C&H [sugar, US based] house. Once my wife brought home some other sugar, and I complained until the bag was gone.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 3 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Oofos, their slides in particular, if you want the plushiest slippers ever.

Knorr Liquid Seasoning. You can dab that thing on any savory dish to level it up.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

https://www.zojirushi.com/ appliances, they are nicely built and have never broken yet. I still have my first rice cooker

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 13 hours ago

They are the best and they are worth it. Practically a BIFL item in every case.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 14 hours ago

My shirts only come from Hyena Agenda and Nomad Complex.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

King Arthur flour. Almost all the store brands are good here. But flour is very finicky in some applications so having a brand that is exactly the same all the time is important.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Hellmann's/Best Foods for mayonnaise.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 0 points 10 hours ago

I used to be on that level but when I went vegan I switched to Veganaise. It turns out that it’s leaps and bounds better than Hellman’s.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Audio-Technica headphones. My first pair was the ATH-M50, and despite being an Apple fanatic I still think AirPods (and Beats before) sound like trash.

[–] TheFriar@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

Damn, see I loved A-T but then I got their earbuds and was supremely disappointed.

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 1 points 13 hours ago

Scott Ultra Strong is the only type of toilet paper that everyone in my house finds acceptable. The other ones either are too rough, leave little bits of paper behind, or your fingers go through them during use.