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[–] drkt@scribe.disroot.org 71 points 5 days ago (4 children)

The protocol is bloated to hell so third-party clients stand no chance, and the foundation spends more time bikeshedding or pissing away money than they do developing. It's a doomed project.

[–] eleitl@lemmy.zip 22 points 5 days ago (4 children)
[–] ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net 34 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (34 children)

Slrpnk hosts an XMPP/Jabber for our users, mods and admins to communicate. Its worked pretty darn well for the past couple years, with very low resource needs.

The clients are pretty slick now too, such as Cheogram or Monocles for mobile, and movim is an excellent web app with support for group calls.

I'd certainly recommend it over Matrix/element.

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[–] Sickday@kbin.earth 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] eleitl@lemmy.zip 17 points 5 days ago (3 children)
[–] ExFed@programming.dev 11 points 5 days ago

Not when the entirety of your conversations are jargon and in-jokes!

/s

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[–] Telorand@reddthat.com 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Depends what your goal is. Revolt seems pretty cool, but I don't think it has any kind of encryption. It is based in Europe, though, so it gets GDPR protection, and it's open source, so it could be forked to fit other needs and uses.

[–] eleitl@lemmy.zip 9 points 5 days ago

No, Revolt checks neither of my boxes unfortunately.

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[–] edent@lemmy.world 60 points 5 days ago (3 children)

I agree with all this. The thing which caused me to uninstall was suddenly being pushed lots of abusive message with disturbing contents.

When I complained about it, Matrix told me that my public complaints were hurting the ecosystem and I should be quiet.

[–] AbnormalHumanBeing@lemmy.abnormalbeings.space 17 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I had a wild ride with matrix, originally wanting to run a node on my server. That did not turn out well, because I was a bit stupid and just assumed there would be more admin/mod tools out of the box. As it turned out, I had inadvertently allowed spam/abuse accounts on my node without even noticing, because naive as I was, I assumed my admin-level account would get informed of stuff like user registrations and abuse reports in the standard Element frontend. As a bonus, when I checked what was supposedly the official matrix support channel, it was repeatedly getting spammed with CSAM and gore at the time. That was when I realised, that it definitely was not the ecosystem for me, and running a node without experience had been a pretty stupid idea on my end.

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[–] brunoqc@piefed.ca 9 points 5 days ago

When I complained about it, Matrix told me that my public complaints were hurting the ecosystem and I should be quiet.

Weird. I think they did some improvement to prevent those abusive messages but it took a while and it was embarrassing. Maybe it's hard to prevent them with a federated network but still, the abusive messages where basically a copy paste.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 days ago

Oh fuck that culty nonsense!

[–] 2910000@lemmy.world 43 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I just want a self-hostable open-source alternative to the shitty closed-source IM systems I'm forced to use

I'm sticking with Matrix for now, hopefully some of the issues I've had will get ironed out

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Revolt is a self hosted discord clone

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[–] undrwater@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 34 points 4 days ago (19 children)

We really need to stop abandoning existing foss projects and thinking a whole new thing needs to be invented. Free and open-source software is not a product, it doesn't abide by the same rules and relationships that proprietary tech does.

It's more organic. It's also a commons that we can continue to draw on, and reshape. If I recall correctly, there were something like three different vector graphic editors from the same codebase before Inkscape managed to be the one that gained traction.

Matrix isn't perfect, but abandoning it just to reinvent it all over again just because some people really need a thing that works like Discord, even though Discord is absolute hot garbage; is just going to re-create all the same problems. Matrix today is better than it was two years ago. And Matrix in a year will be better from now.

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[–] cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone 26 points 5 days ago (6 children)

i want 90s era icq and 2000s era msn back :(

[–] negativenull@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

400/F/krynn oh sorry i was in the red dragon inn room :3

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[–] deadsuperhero@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I always liked the concept of Matrix, and still actively use it, but there's some serious jank. Synapse is generally bloated and not fun to run an instance, Dendrite is perpetually in Beta, and the clients themselves range from adequate to awful. The default Element client on Android is so broken for me that I'm forced to use Element X, because I can't even log in with Element.

It's disappointing, but there's a ton of issues that aren't so easy to resolve. New Vector and the Element Foundation are basically two separate entities that have some kind of hard split between them, neither of which seems to have the money necessary to support comprehensive development. The protocol is said to be bloated and overtly complex, and trying to develop a client or a server implementation is something of a nightmare.

I want to see Matrix succeed, I think a lot of people see the potential of what it could be. I'm not sure it'll ever get there.

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[–] supermurs@kbin.earth 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

For me Matrix is fine, I can use IRC, Whatsapp and Discord with it. But Element is not my cup of tea, especially with Firefox as it doesn't play any videos other users are sharing. The same videos work fine with Cinny.

[–] sxan@midwest.social 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I can use IRC

The fact that many Discord and IRC channels (servers?) block Matrix connections has drastically reduced its usefulness for me. When I was running my own Matrix server, I could have gotten around it by using a puppet, but Synapse is such a hog I had to shut it down, and most of the IRC rooms I want to use don't allow Matrix proxies.

[–] poVoq@slrpnk.net 8 points 5 days ago (7 children)

The IRC (Biboumi) and Discord bridges (slidge.im) for XMPP work still fine and running your own server is super lightweight.

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[–] sunth1ef@sh.itjust.works 18 points 4 days ago (1 children)

From an outsiders perspective, element has never worked for me and never been stable enough to get anywhere close to discord. Joining servers is buggy AF and Element X is severely hobbied on mobile.

I've been refusing to use discord for about 6-8 months and am often invites to join various discords by IRL friends and online communities. I wish Matrix / Element was a viable alternative but I've never been able to get it working for anythung other than DMs, and I'm already happy with Signal for that honestly.

As a non developer I want to be sensitive to the amount of work involves, and the number of cooks in the kitchen, but the fact that we don't have a FOSS- federated slack / discord killer app is leaving so much interaction on the table.

I've heard of Revolt but it doesn't seem to be there with encryption

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[–] yessikg@fedia.io 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] cmhe@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

That is what the author said they switch to, but TBH XMPP also has issues with MFA and messages frequently not being decrypted (using OMEMO) and 'unencrypted metadata'.

I wouldn't say that it works better than Matrix, it just has some different strengths and weaknesses.

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[–] Netrunner@programming.dev 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Self hosted matrix works great. /thread

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[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I don’t know why people don’t use irc, I’m in it daily and it’s busier than Matrix, and even busier than some Discord servers I’m in. And there’s mobile clients. There’s even way less bots and spam

[–] MangoPenguin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I think the barrier to entry is kind of high, you need to use a bouncer to see what happened while you were offline.

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I don’t really worry about that. I treat it like natural conversation, or traditional chat rooms. I mean I don’t need a recap when I show up at a party. I just jump in. I’ve never heard of a bouncer, but I think it would turn it into more of a feed than a conversation, which is the opposite of what I want.

I’m tired of feeds and timelines. AOL chat rooms were my formative internet years, and I liked that. I think the old style of internet communication is better than the feed silos we have now. Besides, I hardly ever go back and look at older convos in other spaces. I usually hit mark all as read when I open the app.

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[–] sk1nnym1ke@piefed.social 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (6 children)

I am still mad that are no mobile clients that supports multiple accounts. So I am ending up installing for each account a different client.

Edit: added mobile.

[–] RobotZap10000@feddit.nl 7 points 5 days ago (2 children)

NeoChat on KDE allows me to choose which account to login to when I start it.

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[–] Trihilis@ani.social 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (7 children)

The thing is... What alternatives are there? Signal can't be trusted (on the very same website there is an article about it). I'm not using closed source alternatives, Simplex is kinda shady too tbh and I'm not even sure I could get anyone to use it.

I don't like Matrix/Element either but sadly its the best open source chat solution we have.

[–] Probius@sopuli.xyz 13 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Why don't people trust Signal?

[–] GlenRambo@jlai.lu 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Its a 18 months old but OP means this on the same site. https://xn--gckvb8fzb.com/if-you-must-use-signal-use-molly/

The blogger also stopped using proton mail. So idk. Seems to be their thing atm.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 24 points 4 days ago

I started reading the article but didn’t finish. This guy is a fool. He’s bitching about vendor lock in? The data isn’t supposed to be portable. That’s the point.

[–] philpo@feddit.org 7 points 4 days ago

Signal itself is solid. For now. The issue is that signal is a centralized infrastructure service that is based in the US.

While it's rather unlikely that something shady is going on and the current administration manages to pressure someone into installing back doors without anyone noticing, there is a growing chance that at some point the Orange Hitler or his cronies aim at Signal - and simply shut the whole thing down in a single sweep.

Which would mean the whole thing is lost - in theory they of course could rebuild a foundation outside the US, but that would also mean they need people not residing in the US (not like Proton which claims to operate from Switzerland and in reality are US based) and find funding there - enough funding to cover the costs and that is not impeded by US pressure.

This is the scenario that makes Signal a problematic candidate - and sadly the foundation is doing nothing against it.

[–] PirateFrog@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 5 days ago (4 children)

The article author went back to XMPP, which does appear to be the best option currently.

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[–] undrwater@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago

xmpp mentioned, I'll add IRC

[–] pulsewidth@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago

Counterpoint: this is just some random blogger and you don't need to follow any of their advice.

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[–] Mio@feddit.nu 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I am glad someone can admit it failed and we have to learn from this. I am just wondering what it takes to succeed.

[–] Turret3857@infosec.pub 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (4 children)

start with a discord clone

make it e2ee

make it federated

i feel like it shouldnt be this hard, but I'm not the one developing matrix, nor XMPP, nor the 3rd smaller option you the reader is wanting me to list that I am unaware of

[–] Threeme2189@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Don't fucking clone the godaweful mess that is Discord. Please, for the love of God start with something else.

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