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I have/had a good friend who is a devout Muslim, was born in Egypt but moved to the US when he was very young. His father was from there, his mother was American, white, and I'm not totally clear whether or not she converted but was definitely not Muslim when they met. From what I understand his father got a lot of shit from his family over that.
Over the years, my friend butted heads with dad a lot. At one point his dad wanted to move the family to Egypt, basically because he never fully adjusted to life in the US. My friend stood up to him, because all of his younger siblings had only ever lived here, they had friends and lives here and it would be kind of shitty to uproot all of that, so he kicked my friend out of the house, and wouldn't let him see his siblings for probably over a year.
So that was always a threat he kept dangling over my friends head- Fall in line or I'll move the family back to Egypt and cut you off from your siblings.
He also disapproved of any sort of american style dating, and forced my friend to break up with several girlfriends, even if they were Muslim.
One day my friend just totally ghosted all of us. Unfriended everyone on Facebook, leaving pretty much only people with middle Eastern names, stopped replying to calls or texts, etc. a couple of us went to his house to check on him, and did actually make contact with him there but he refused to answer any questions, basically just leaving it at her wasn't going to be friends with any of us anymore.
We know at that point he'd been seeing a girl he'd been keeping secret from his dad, she later reached out to us because he also ghosted her.
We're pretty sure what happened is that his father found out that he was dating her and had another blow-up, threatening to kick him out and cut him off from his siblings for good.
Not every Muslim family is the same of course, some wouldn't have any issues with this sort of situation, in some it will cause varying degrees of family drama, in some it can even get physically abusive, and in a small handful of cases we might even be talking about honor killings.
Where you have different cultures and religions coming into play, this kind of thing can get complicated, it's not always so simple as "it's a free country" although it should be.