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no
why not
Escalation sucks when the other side has little to lose.
What do I have to lose . And it's not like I have a choice either, I can't see afford to move I'm trapped here in a cycle of suffering and literal hell
First, it won't stop the problem.
Second, you stupidly posted about it online meaning it's a planned thing. He might be accidentally loud. You're planning harassment. Guess who the cops will arrest.
He's a person. Talk to him nicely. He may have no idea at all that he's bothering people, so don't come in hot like a crazy person.
I had no idea our 40lb Boston Terrier/Beagle mix walking around was so loud for our downstairs neighbors. After they told us, we invested in some rugs to try and dampen the sound.
Of course, they would get into screaming matches at 3am with each other until the cops were called - then the cops would ring our buzzer because they refused to answer.
I do not miss apartment living.
No because it's obvious he's harassing me. Any time I make the smallest noise he bangs on the wall
don't listen to him. you need to show dominance. take a crap in the guy's mouth