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I've occasionally brought it up before, but a while back in my reddit days I was in a thread where a "professional deprogrammer" had popped in and was talking about how to "deprogram" conservatives and get them to shift left in their views. It centered around restoring their sense of community and belonging with more balanced viewpoint folks IRL and away from their online echo chambers.

I asked them if they had any way to convert someone you encounter wholly online and they said that it was basically impossible, IRL you have a decent chance, but not online.

I've been thinking about that quite a bit, so now I'm curious if anybody here has actually gotten an online conservative to come to the ~~dark side~~ light side?

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[–] Zarxrax@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don't think anyone is going to change their views over an Internet post or conversation. Maybe someone might come around on a particular topic if an argument really resonates with them, but someone changing their entire worldview can take years. But sure, I think it's possible given enough conversation and slight nudging over time, given they aren't being more radicalized by other content every day.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I have changed my opinions by being exposed to new knowledge and different opinions multiple times, so I assume it could happen to other people too.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

I have too. I've been ignorant and confidently wrong occasionally.

[–] BigMikeInAustin@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

This is why so many conservatives constantly refer to books, higher education, and bigger communities as liberal agenda indoctrination.

And then what is annoying on top of that is the conservatives who went to college and got the better life because of their degree, but then actively try to prevent others from attending college. Because everyone who attends college will get liberally brainwashed, except for themselves. They are so full of themselves they think only they were smart enough to not get brainwashed. But they think everyone else is dumb and will be brainwashed.

I've have conservatives tell me this. I wouldn't call it a conversation, because they were "so smart" and I was "too dumb" that it was a talking down to, not a conversation. They had no plan to listen to anything other than the knowledge they were bestowing to a dumber person.