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I don't know that I'd agree it's unnatural. My observation, from far too many years on the internet, is that fighting passionately over minor differences is quite natural. But it's all very impersonal here, and if someone seems to be really intense about an issue, or if I feel myself getting that way, it's time to take a break from that conversation. Maybe block them if it seem consistent because sometimes you just can't have a healthy conversation with a person and what's the point of engaging with them, then?
I'm really suspicious of anyone who doesn't hold a single opinion that differs with the zeitgeist. I don't expect anyone to agree with me all the time, and I don't agree with anyone on issue B just because we happen to align on issue A. And don't even get me started on morons I agree with, but who make terrible arguments I'm going to be expected to hold with and defend by association.
Then I step away from the computer and go deal with the nuances of life where nothing is so clear cut as the hypotheticals we engage with online.