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I really don't get why there are so many mean people here. I don't mean everyone has to go around being extra polite all the time - hell, even I don't do that. It's the intentional stuff, trying to hurt someone's feelings, that baffles me. There's way too much of it, and it just boggles my mind.
I don't care how big an asshole the other person was being - responding that way just makes two assholes. Block them and move on. Don't add to the toxicity that ruins social media in the first place, or you're part of the problem.
I believe there is some huge level of insecurity among people that make them act that way. It has to be. It's their poor way of coping in a world they probably didn't have any plans in how to navigate in, so why not just be a bastard online? It gives them a sense of superiority and power I guess, as false as it is.
If you're having to go around and mindlessly pick arguments with people, be an asshole and try to tell them how you're better than them? You're most likely not better than them. You've only sunk down several levels yourself.