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My Saudi parents back home think I’m a good Muslim young man. Meanwhile, I’m in Europe having adventures with women old enough to be my mom, among other things; so I’d rather not dishonor the family just yet.
How could pleasing older women ever bring dishonor‽
Mohammed himself did as much with Khadija!
Be the change the world needs by replacing oil with pleasure as Saudi Arabia's strongest export!
Purity culture combined with fertility expectations frames older women as low value, damaged or “used goods.” For example, my parents believe the ideal age gap is five years, with the man being older, and that couples should marry in their twenties.
It's certainly better than the reverse.
You getting married or just fornicating?
Just fornicating. I’m young, I want variety, and I’m enjoying myself.
Well, at least you know this can't last forever. 🤷😅