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[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

In many (most?) non-Western cultures people live with their parents until they get married and move out. Just saying, it's not a thing to "judge" a person for regardless.

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Considering OP has a Taiwanese flag in his username as well as a Japansese anime character name (with the kanji as well as the romaji, and a Chinese name (the hanzi as well as the pinyin), I'm guessing OP is at least moderately aware of non-Western cultures practices on the topic and I don't immediately suspect OP is judging people for their answers either way.

Didn't say OP was, just that it doesn't even fit the framework for "judgement", it's not a moral failing or developmental hangup, that's all. 🤷👍

[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

This is a mainly American thing I believe