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[–] kingofras@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

A much more selective user base. People are very picky in what they upvote. I feel like in the Spez pool people upvoted or downvoted and would comment a lot easier. Here people vote with 3 options. Up, down or not. Feels much more deliberate. Also means you get a lot less comments (despite there being less users), because people follow the Bambi principle more here (if you don’t have anything nice to say, say nothing at all)

AND, I think there are some fediverse issues with the various clients and the fact that language is per post setting, hindering discovery.

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 11 points 1 day ago

I always felt on R that if you commented, most of the time, it goes down a black hole. You come into something "late" and no one sees your comment. No up/down votes at all. Which can feel very bad if you spent a lot of time on your response.

I like that "Bambi principle". Thats a good way of putting it.

[–] SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

the fact that language is per post setting, hindering discovery.

Could you please elaborate on this a bit? It feels interesting for me, but I don't quite see how the language setting impedes discovery.