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[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 19 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Cynicism isn't inherently more mature than believing that things can be made better. For a lot of people "everything is fucked, nothing matters" is a way of absolving themselves from the responsibility and personal risk involved in actively trying to make the world a better place.

[–] presoak@lazysoci.al 4 points 7 hours ago

I agree. And I think that cynicism is just easier. The claims of maturity part is mere justification.

[–] ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

They get mad at the very idea that people can work together and successfully create change, despite numerous historical examples. It's actively immature to be wholly cynical