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I understand the idea of shielding people from content that would be upsetting, but my own experience is, that I feel a little anxious as soon as I read Trigger Warning [...].

How is your experience with it? Are you happy with it, or do you thing there are better ways to address dark topics?

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[–] yesman@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Seeing something objectionable in media is not a "growth through suffering". It is also not censorship. Nobody ever became a Nazi simply by reading Mien Kampf. (It's usually complaining about made up shit like cancel-culture that pushes the dim-whited into the far-right).

There should have been a content warning on this thread: graphic depictions of boomer philosophy.

[–] DempstersBox@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

You know, fairy tales for children generally involved horror, murder, dismemberment and worse.

To get the kids to be aware of the actual horrors of the world, which are worse.

Hearing a story about, or seeing a fictional or even actual video of some of the fucked up shit people do to each other for stupid fucking reasons is still not actually traumatic.

Experiencing depictions of such shit should absolutely bother you. Should absolutely put you a bit on your toes, in real life, on the daily.

So you can avoid those situations. So you know shit like that's possible, and fucked up fuckers have done it and will do it, and they'll think they're right the whole time.

Because when it does actually happen, that's when it is traumatic, and not just being smart and aware

[–] Libb@piefed.social 0 points 17 hours ago

thx for this fine demonstration.