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That Lemmy can be just as bigoted, hostile, and close-minded as the sites it set out to replace; it drives out views which aren't in line with the gestalt majority. This thread, then, mostly gets answers which are on the mildest end because those who actually hold opinions out of step with the majority know damn well not to speak up, or, well... be immediately othered.
Turns out that people are assholes regardless of platform
in my experience that's especially true of certain instances, but not others. mostly along ideological lines.
Yeahs and people are on good behavior in posts like this. The “lemmy” doesn’t come out as much.
Care to provide specific examples? I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just curious as to what things about this place that you consider to be "bigoted". Because my experience has been that the opinions that aren't tolerated here are themselves the bigoted opinions.
This is a tautology. All you are saying here is 'anything i declared bigoted shouldn't be tolerated'.
other people may not agree with your interpretation of bigoted. I see all sorts of hateful bigoted crap on here, it's just about what group it's targeting. I got banned from Autism community because I pointed out their bigoted hatred of 'normies' was messed up and many members there had a weird superiority complex about autism.
Yep. Basically this. And to bring it back around to OP's question:
...well, it feels like this is a great example. Suggest that the fediverse has a bit of a bigotry problem, and you immediately get hit with an implication that no, everything is fine, if you're not happy then you must actually be the bigot!
Look back on my profile at the recent comment where I mentioned Johnny Depp being a disgusting drunk rapist who groomed a woman half his age and sued her for defaming him when she spoke about the backlash she received for speaking out against his domestic abuse.
Bigotry against the bigoted isn't bigotry.
Oh man, to test this, just go somewhere and defend women. You'll be destroyed.
gender war bullshit is bullshit.
lemmy is full of anti-men threads. there was a massive one a few days ago with 100s of comments. is that pro-woman?
I don't know, personally I'm against anti-whatever nonsense. I'm not in any camp, but I will point out my gendered life experiences, because the often go against the popular grain of gender essentialism that many people are conceptual wedded to.