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Tremendously. Forums give me a social boost, social media and Reddit-alikes don't. As you say - disembodied voices.
I detest the deliberately ephemeral nature of modern platforms.
Yep I had a proper online friendship group and a real community on message boards. It's waayyy better on lemmy than Facebook or reddit but still not quite there
Yeah, I get a bit of it through Mastodon and I've been to a meetup there which was delightful (Jeff Minter bought me fish & chips!). I think a bit more emphasis on user profiles (bigger avatars, signatures, stuff like that) would help a lot.
I've run forums and been part of them. At the moment I don't really have time but I expect I will again in future. I keep using stuff like Lemmy but it just doesn't make my brain happy like forums did.
The asynchronous nature of them helped a great deal. Here I feel like threads have a lifespan of a day or two at most. I don't want to have to engage immediately in order to take part.
I also don't like the whole upvote/downvote thing. I'm good at it but it colours every interaction in a way I find deeply problematic.