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[–] gigachad@sh.itjust.works 45 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

You don't. Love is expressed by things people do, not what they say.

[–] SlothMama@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

I don't agree with your premise, love languages are real, and some people, like me, what are called words of affirmation are very important and receiving them feels like receiving love, and when people don't speak the same love language, an act significant to the giver may not be received and felt as significant by the receiver

[–] Kornblumenratte@feddit.org 7 points 16 hours ago

@gigachad@sh.itjust.works has a point, though. I agree with you that love is expressed by words, but I also agree with them that words alone are meaningless if not backed by loving behaviour.

[–] Steve@communick.news 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Yah. But you realize that someone could simply lie to you right?

[–] deadcream@sopuli.xyz 4 points 14 hours ago

My love language is gaslighting my partner 🥰🥰

[–] TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub 2 points 14 hours ago

May be both, but universally, actions speak louder than words.