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[–] zqps@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 hours ago

the bigger issue is that generally people think men are evil by default, and women are good by default. and that's not a cultural assumption most folks are willing to look past.

I consider myself a feminist and I vehemently disagree with that take, nor does it reflect in any way the commonly held views in the relevant communities.

Women and men are people. All people hold the capacity for good and evil within them. The real differences are 1) our respective socialization, and 2) the way we are perceived and treated by society based on our gender. That's not an individual issue, but a systemic one.

I've been part of a few support groups for men that regularly received appreciation from women specifically because they were aimed at helping men in recognition of this fact, and thus didn't revolve into inceldom and gender war nonsense.