this post was submitted on 20 Nov 2025
57 points (95.2% liked)

Ask Lemmy

35607 readers
1296 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


6) No US Politics.
Please don't post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world or !askusa@discuss.online


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Like the Palestine-Israel conflict which a lot has happened since it started, you can barely argue or talk about it if you are literally out of the loop without mistepping because its just a too complex situation for us westerners.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] FridaySteve@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

What do you say to people who tell you "But everything is political!! You're participating in politics by not participating!" or "Wow such privilege, being able to just ignore "?

[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I just shrug and say you're probably right. I can't find the exact quote but it's something like "Pacifists only exist because others do violence on their behalf" and I think it's applicable here as well. But, look, I barely have agency over my own affairs, so I'm not going to waste energy futilely worrying about the affairs of others.

[–] FridaySteve@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

I think that reflects the biggest conspiracy of the modern age tbh. As long as everyone's focused on specific aspects of American politics (as they do worldwide) they aren't focused on areas of their own lives where they can make positive change, political or otherwise. And here in the US, our political leaders actually love it that everyone's obsessed with one person in one branch of our government because it's the politics that affects their lives the least and they can do the least about. It's actually smarter to focus on yourself and managing your own affairs.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 hours ago

Yeah there's nothing we can do in politics, its all rigged by billionaires. What you can do is organize in your community. This at least helps somewhat.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

agreed. most of the advocate types and extremists i know are just... miserable people who hate their lives who want to use their political beliefs to make everyone else as miserable as they are.

most happy people i know have political beliefs. they just don't shove them down everyone else's throats and they aren't totally beholden to them as some measure of morality or worth.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

i tell them they are assholes. because they are.

because what they really mean is 'anyone who doesn't share in my beliefs is bad and wrong'.

they just come back at you about how bad and wrong you are. because they operate under the delusion they are the only rational and thoughtful person who ever existed. 90% of of the time they are also massive hypocrites who do the opposite of what they say others should do. like they will claim everyone should respect others beliefs, but they will not respect anyone else's beliefs and will harass, intimidate, and shame those they disagree with.