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[–] natecox@programming.dev 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nah, straw man for days. You don’t get to dismiss the substance by equating to something I never said.

16% is not “men have a problem and women are fine” and we need to be able to admit when our initial impressions may be off.

More to the point: 46% of women don’t reach out when they need help according to this poll. Pretty close to half, which I feel fundamentally challenges my initial impressions and is worth talking about. I would have assumed it to be more like the inverse of men.

If about half of people are struggling, seems worthwhile to address.

[–] Soleos@lemmy.world 1 points 23 hours ago

It's not a strawman. Just because the proportions aren't as extreme as you expected doesn't mean it's not an issue. Just because we're talking about the gap here doesn't dismiss the overall problem of isolation. There are many many threads talking about the problem of social isolation overall. Go engage in those threads that are addressing the problem you're newly woke to and are holding so urgently now instead of bickering in here about who should be talking about what where.