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That's giving some all lives matter energy. We can talk about why everyone is so closed off in general, but this thread clearly focuses on a particular men's issue under that umbrella issue. So no, we should talk about the topic, not hijack it for "a larger issue".
I'm a thread about the wage gap between men and women (10-15%), you don't say "We should be talking about why the economy is struggling instead"
In a thread about the incarceration gap between blacks and whites, you don't say "We should be talking about why crime is up overall instead"
You make a great point about society needing to change, and a particular men's issue doesn't mean only men need to change, it actually does speak to how broader society considers what it is to be a man. How men decide that for themselves, are socialized by their environment into it, and how they're treated by other genders. Just as women's issues are human issues, men's issues are human issues too.
Nah, straw man for days. You don’t get to dismiss the substance by equating to something I never said.
16% is not “men have a problem and women are fine” and we need to be able to admit when our initial impressions may be off.
More to the point: 46% of women don’t reach out when they need help according to this poll. Pretty close to half, which I feel fundamentally challenges my initial impressions and is worth talking about. I would have assumed it to be more like the inverse of men.
If about half of people are struggling, seems worthwhile to address.
It's not a strawman. Just because the proportions aren't as extreme as you expected doesn't mean it's not an issue. Just because we're talking about the gap here doesn't dismiss the overall problem of isolation. There are many many threads talking about the problem of social isolation overall. Go engage in those threads that are addressing the problem you're newly woke to and are holding so urgently now instead of bickering in here about who should be talking about what where.