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They want to improve your life by giving you something which is not broken and assumedly works better than whatever you’re using now. You are rejecting that because of your insistence that things must be old. They know you will never get it for yourself, and maybe they think you’re just being cheap. It probably hurts them seeing you use what to them looks like a piece of crap. It’s really hard to say without knowing what the actual items involved are In just speculating.
Knocking onto this, it could also stem from the fact that they'd like a bit more of OPs time. A new item means(presumably) less time trouble shooting and repairing, more efficient use, and less time having to correct the items mistakes. That additional time is some of what they are lamenting not being able to get.
It's not so much an insistence that things be old. I love refurbishing old things and making them work for me. Just cooked breakfast on a pan my wife and I found in the trash! I treasure items like that more than something I merely threw money at.
For example; I could have a laugh with a friend: "Check out this brand new pan we found in the garbage!" Vs. "Yeah, I went to Walmart and bought a new pan."
One of my favorite vintage shotguns took me a month to refurbish, make it mine. Promise you've never seen one like it. It was all of $200 (parts, stain, every little cost). I'm far more proud of that than the any shotgun I could have bought at the store.
Anyway, I understand OP. But he still shouldn't have insisted on returning the damned thing.
They literally said the old one still "works just fine"...
And it seems clear from the text that it's a 3D printer
The text makes clear that the 3d printer was an older gift that they enjoyed (which they enjoyed building)
Yes, and:
Seems clear that the gift was a replacement printer?
They said only that it is “a thing they already have” there could be literally anything, though they said it was dented which makes me think it’s not a printer
The 3D printer was previously gifted by the spouse.
This new gift would replace something gifted by OP's mother in law.
They're different things.