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Constantly. Usually it takes the form of reducing topics to binary choices and/or purity tests.
i really have never encountered someone like this.
unless the 'purity test' is being anti genocide or pro trans rights. you know, basic fundamental shit.
Genocide is a term that is both over and under used. There are currently about six genocides ongoing. I don't see the point in trying to call someone out on it because no one is actually doing anything for or against it outside of a very small number of people.
If someone asks me if I'm anti genocide I assume they mean something they specifically consider a genocide and they are trying to use this as bait to get me to out myself in some way. They don't actually expect I'm personally participating or countering it in any way.
Trans rights also is a loaded term now because there are a LOT of individual rights Trans people are needing to fight for all in parallel. It's better to be specific.
Sure someone who says they are against trans people is awful, but I find folks set the bar in different places and use that to start an argument. The easiest example is, what age should someone be allowed to transition which is an intensely challenging question to answer even on a medical level.
Yeah, the comment above is kind of a hilarious example of cognitive dissonance. "I've never seen purity tests, other than these tests for ensuring purity". Blanket statements like that are rarely used in good faith.
You're all making generalities out of assumptions here...
There's no assumption. They literally listed two purity tests that they themselves use, directly after saying that they never see anyone use purity tests
There are thick, uncrossable lines, and there are a lot of people who don't mind crossing them. You cannot compromise with a bigot. You cannot find common ground with a person who would subjugate you, or someone who sees you as less than human.
We can have disagreements about many political issues, but when you are standing next to pedophiles, rapists, fascists, and bigots, you shouldn't be surprised to be called a Nazi.
So the question becomes, what is the test of "purity"?
To reiterate the comment you're responding to, you're reducing a complex world to a binary choice. Everyone that has ever existed is bigoted to some degree, therefore no compromise is possible ever?
Their example of bigots was racists and nazis plus pedos (which isn't bigotry but universally frowned upon). They did NOT say, "any and all bigots, even of minor things".
Why are you trying to make them say something they did not say?
You are part of the problem. When someone says, "I like pancakes", what they SPECIFICALLY DID NOT SAY is, "I hate waffles".
Similarly, when someone says, "you cannot compromize with nazis and bigots", what they DID NOT say was, "any concervative deserves the death penalty". Why do you read it as such?
I quoted an entire sentence exactly. They didn't say "I like pancakes", they said "You can't compromise with waffle-eaters"