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[–] Ifera@lemmy.world 35 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Ugh, casual sexism. Look at the bottom of the barrel, and judge an entire gender by the way those behave.

A lot of guys, gay or otherwise, don't think or behave like that. And by your own definition, you're also the worst. Sucks to have that terrible self esteem, but don't lump me up with your self-hating ass

[–] frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Try an experiment: go on Fetlife and setup a profile as a fem. Start collecting DMs. It might be enlightening.

And by your own definition, you’re also the worst.

Yes, you're very smart.

[–] Ifera@lemmy.world 20 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

Open garbage can > Look in > Mostly garbage.

How very insightful of you, mate.

There are some amazing people in FetLife, and in Grindr too. But like I said before, looking at the very bottom of the barrel and judging a whole gender based on it, that is beyond stupid.

[–] frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Funny how I never seem to have these issues with fems and non-binary people. Even the ones who grew up masc. In fact, most of the problems there are a direct result of really shitty behavior from men and trying to cope with it.

Instead of going "not all men", maybe try to point out shitty behavior? Maybe one day, we can get past all this.

[–] Ifera@lemmy.world 11 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I point out shitty behavior, no matter the source. Hence why I am pointing out your very shitty behavior, that you're too biased to even comprehend.

[–] frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone -4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

You sound like the reason women choose the bear.

[–] Ifera@lemmy.world 6 points 13 hours ago

And you sound like someone who polices choices, swallow the onion whole, feeds the trolls AND takes ragebait at face value.

I truly hope you get to see the world and yourself with kinder, more reality based eyes one day.

[–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 7 points 12 hours ago

The point is, if 10% of guys in a given population are unspeakably awful, that’s the 10% who you will hear from on a dating app. You don’t get that from fems because they are typically being pursued on all dating and social media apps, because we still largely hold to the cultural norm that men/masc presenting people are responsible for asking the other person out.

It seems worse on Grindr because the majority of users are cis men-the very people who have been told since birth that it’s their job to pursue sexual connections. Of course that leads to poor behavior.

[–] rishado@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

There's no winning with you. You argue with the same logic as a trump supporter.

[–] BigBenis@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago

As a human being, human beings are the worst. If it wasn't for our tendency to completely dominate our environments, I don't know why the world would put up with us.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world -2 points 11 hours ago

I was dating hot and heavy a couple of years ago. Fun first date question was to ask the woman about bad first dates they've had. Jesus fucking Christ, I have no idea why they keep trying with us men! I have exactly 1 horrible first date story, and that was more stupid than horrible.