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So funnily enough a majority of my friends are feminine-presenting and several of them are single so I hear a lot about their experiences with dating guys and almost universally their primary concerns are hygiene and listening abilities (and past that concerns for their ability to budget and be financially stable), because that's how low the bar is for men.
Given how consistently the only people I ever see saying that women like big trucks/expensive cars happen to be men, and every women/feminine presenting person I know never even mentions vehicle choice when talking about what they do or don't like in a potential partner, plus the memes posted by women consistently matching this opinion, I have to believe that that's the case.
How are you meeting these dates who scoff at your sound financial decisions? What are your filters for a potential date? I strongly suspect you may be inadvertently filtering your dates either by where you meet them or expecting certain characteristics (or potentially you might be doing something that scares away non-gold diggers) so that most of who you date happen to be overly veign
women who approach me and flirt with me who are single.
i also get women who approach and flirt who aren't single. same shit.
every woman i've ever dated says she doesn't care about these things and is lookign for a guy to listen to her... and then all they do is complain i don't spend enough money on them or own expensive enough stuff.