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There's something insulting about being the one she wants to settle down with after a bunch of flings etc.
When's my turn to have fun?
Who was stopping you?
Nobody wanted to have fun with me.
They were stopping themselves
It be true, I do stop myself
I hope some day you can reflect on this statement and realise the toxicity behind it.
Edit: I guess the downvoters don't like to be called out?
What's toxic about wanting better than being the backup option?
Nothing at all, but that last line, "When is my turn to have fun?" Is a bit transactional, like there's an expectation and that's the problematic part.
Exactly, but also immediately assuming you'd be the "backup" on this and it of course cannot be genuine love.
Men can grow and change over 5 years. Women? Nah. She just wanted to fuck around and now she's settling.
This train of thought is some terminally online shit. Then again, complaining that green text is some terminally online shit is insane in its own account.
And that was added by ilovethebomb
I think the toxic part is what was added by ilovethebomb. They never asked this and seemed to have genuinely moved on.