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Not a parent but I read this and have my personal opinions, curious what others think about it.

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[โ€“] Ledivin@lemmy.world 40 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I understand the thought process and agree to a point - kids are definitely on too tight of leashes these days.

That said, everything I read in that article tells me that the author is a fucking horrible parent and I wouldn't want to ever be in 1000 feet of her demons.

Yes, your kids should have some freedom. No, they shouldn't actively be bothering everyone around them every moment they're out of the house. Teach them respect and kindness, too.

A bit hyperbolic but something I have noticed in a lot of this parenting style tips are that either the kid needs to be padded up head to toe on a leash glued to their parent 24/7 or they should be allowed run wild screaming at the top of their lungs at restaurants and museums.

There is very little in-between, unless you find the sane person in the comments. Kinda like a lot of things nowadays, sadly.