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im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

men being outraged women don't invite them into everything is a real phenomenon I've seen around.

You got an example to share with the class?

Becuase at least around fedi I never seen it but I have seen this same style post on here within last few months.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, I don't catalogue them, lol. You'll have to take/ignore my word for it.

Going "hey, weren't we supposed to be equal" is understandable. Not paying any mind to reasons given why they're not allowed in whatever group and then making it a huge grievance to pursue shows the issue goes beyond philosophy.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 1 points 2 days ago

It just seems odd we are having this discussion about behavior that nobody can link up on this platform.

I am sure somebody some where did it, no doubt but OP presents it as a current issue worthy of notice and discussion but fails to provide any receipts to support this claim.

If somebody is making a huge grievance on fedi about it. I would like to see the thread.

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

your anecdote is cute, but i get reports from the women-only sub daily and it sure as hell isnt only guys not paying attention

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

dude, believe whatever you want to believe.

the fact men are jerks in the context of this thread is not an unknown and quite well established across the internet.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Again... Show me a comment where somebody is a jerk in this thread.

You make unsubstantiated claims and expect the audience to just accept it? That's not how discourse works, that's an echo chamber.

at no point did i say anyone in this thread is the issue.

i dont care if you dont want to believe mod reports. not my problem.