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im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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[–] zuch0698o@lemmy.world 72 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Honestly the varied mobile platforms don't always present the channel/groups rules in advance. Especially if one is just browsing trending topics. There can potentially be no way for some users to be informed enough before they see a topic they want to interact with.

Best solution I found for similar issue is polite advisement of the rules via dm or other preferred method and helping them learn and have better internet etiquette.

Calling folks out publicly can get alot of negative associations with it as well which might end with you group on the wrong end of a troll.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago

Yup, this is it for me. I blocked womenstuff, mostly so that they wouldn't have to deal with me stumbling in from sorting all by new.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world -3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It’s very often right in the title, AND the description, yet filled with men's comments.

[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 day ago

Nope. To be clear, the rules are not in the titles of most posts or the community name.