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I spent half that time in Critical Care (much of that on a ventilator, a small amount sedated), and most of the rest in a specialist neuro-rehab unit. I would have died otherwise.

Fortunately it cost me nothing - Thank Bevan for the NHS - but if I were in the US I imagine I would be financially crippled!

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[–] LilB0kChoy@midwest.social 54 points 3 days ago (2 children)

This is too hard to answer because of the number of variables at play like, do you have insurance, does your condition/issue qualify you for Medicare, does your job offer disability leave, are you FMLA eligible, do you meet requirements for SSA disability etc.

Anecdotally, in 2017 I spent two non-consecutive months in the hospital. The first visit I came in through the ER, ended up in the ICU intubated and worked my way through each section as I got better.

My second stay I skipped the ICU but had a transplant halfway through. I also was on dialysis for the ~6 months in between.

Dialysis was billed at $7k a visit, roughly $500k in total. The transplant surgery alone was ~$750k. The hospital stays came to about $5k a day on average for roughly $300k in total.

So straight billed amount I was somewhere in the $1.5-$1.7 million range.

[–] DoGeeseSeeGod@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Jesus fuck. I hope you are doing better now. Did any of the bills go away or you just paying on in it forever?

[–] LilB0kChoy@midwest.social 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I am doing better though it's looking like I'll need another transplant at some point.

Fortunately, I had good insurance through work and because I ended up in renal failure that makes you automatically eligible for Medicare (one good thing Nixon did). Also, the billed amount gets discounted based on whatever deal your particular insurance has with the provider, so billed amount ≠ paid amount. Unless you're uninsured.

I did ended up going through bankruptcy anyway but that had more to do with my choices and lifestyle leading up to all of this. It did wipe out any portion of that bill that would have been my responsibility though

[–] paranoia@feddit.dk 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How were you living before to become bankrupt?

[–] LilB0kChoy@midwest.social 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As an alcoholic whose life was barely under control.

The long story short version is that, over 10ish years I drank myself almost to death, ended up hospitalized with liver and kidney failure, got discharged and went through treatment and the ended back in the hospital in pretty serious need (so they told me) of a transplant.

Fortunately for me I got listed and was transplanted 5 days later. After that I realized I was given a second chance most people don't get and worked to turn my life around.

I'm now 8 years sober, good credit, married with a house, 2 dogs, 2 cats and I wake up every day grateful to have this extra time.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

you will also be on immunosuppresants long term, because organ transplants too. only some of those medicines are probably cheap.

[–] LilB0kChoy@midwest.social 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yes, and they are not cheap. I typically hit my insurance deductible by the end of February each year.

I'm the kind of person insurance companies hate because I'm expensive and they can't deny most of my care.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 2 days ago

the tacrolimus is tablet is cheap, you're probably taking something like mycophenolate, or a biologic.