Personally, I use x2go to graphically access my servers remotely. It redirects X protocol over ssh and it also short circuits many of the X round trips making it much more responsive than bare X-windows. It also supports sound, remote printing, and file transfers.
nanook
An e-commerce site invariably involves a level of responsibility that I don't think would fly in a federated environment.
I just went through seven motherboard, three power supplies and two i9-10980xe CPU's to find a stable combination of hardware for my instance, so forgive me if I'm not too keen on paying for someone else's.
Since this is not an issue unique to lemmy, it's also a technique to find the IP address of a user using e-mail, send them an e-mail with a reference to a one-pixel image and look where the download comes from, it behooves those who lack the courage of their convictions and prefer to cower in anonymity to either use a VPN or Tor or both.
I am running 6.14 under Ubuntu (self compiled) on an i9-10980xe system that is running my friendica node and I must say I am very happy with the performance of 6.14 thus far.
This is BTW fixed in SOME versions of 6.13 but not all, and I haven't had a chance to test in 6.14 yet.
The 6.12 kernel UHD630 graphics worked when not compiled for realtime but just voluntary preemption. So I have filed Bug 219510. I suspect the kernel team will refer me to Intel since they actually maintain this driver, then Intel will say well it worked when the kernel people didn't hack it for real time and it will end up going nowhere but time will tell. Without a working display, I can't really test KVM/QEMU so will have to wait for action on this bug.
Complete with built-in spyware and censorship.