growsomethinggood

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[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 23 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This is really really significant, especially with the other news of arresting Judge Hannah Dugan for opposing an ICE kidnapping in her courtroom. The legal system is forcing them to at least slow their destructive policy implementation and they don't like that.

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 25 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Every new step is testing the waters of what the people will accept. They've already backtracked on things that were sufficiently unpopular. We need to push back hard, now. Call your reps, get in the streets, say Judge Hannah Dugan's name.

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Protip: if you're going to vandalize Nazi shit, write out "Nazi" instead of a swastika to differentiate from pro-Nazi graffiti

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 32 points 2 weeks ago

It is a useful reminder that people with autism are in danger with this regime in power. And anyone who needs vaccinations (everyone).

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 3 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)
[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 104 points 1 month ago

Just so you know, someone isn't "really nice" if they make jokes like that. Maybe she used to be nice, but she isn't acting that way now.

I'm not sure how old you are, but it sounds like you're both still teenagers or maybe young adults. People are trying to figure themselves out at that time, and sometimes what they try out is edgelord (especially when the edgelords are gaining political power). She may be testing boundaries of what is socially acceptable, in which case it's in her best interests as well as yours to gently push back against this kind of behavior (or more forcefully later if she doesn't take a hint).

Something like, "hey, it makes me uncomfortable when you make those 'identify as' jokes. You know I'm nonbinary and that sort of humor makes me feel like you don't respect me. I fully support your identity, including your faith, and as your friend I hope you would do the same for me."

Even if you are 1-on-1 for that chat, she is almost certainly going to respond negatively to that, so I would drop it there, but be prepared to remind her that you don't like it later. Ideally after some reflection she wakes up and realizes she's causing harm to your friendship, but be prepared to break it off entirely with her if she doesn't want to treat you with respect.

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I am going to stand by my position that misgendering isn't cool, thanks

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[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Then simple question, why not use First Gentleman? Kamala Harris' husband was Second Gentleman and would have been first if she had won.

You're speaking with a lot of confidence about the validity of the feelings of a group of people who, I'm guessing, you are not apart of.

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

Hey, just so you're aware, a lot of women and trans people find this joke pretty misogynistic and transphobic since it implies that it would be more demeaning for Elon to be a woman or queer than it is for him to be his regular cringey self. Something to keep in mind so we don't friendly-fire on our allies!

Edit for anyone still struggling with this: if 👏 you 👏 misgender 👏 ANYONE 👏 on purpose 👏 then 👏 trans 👏 people 👏 will 👏 not 👏 trust 👏 you 👏

ThePowerofGeek, you're great and appreciated and I hope you don't read anything below from the people who want you to have a worse reaction so their feelings don't get hurt vicariously.