Stegget

joined 2 years ago
[–] Stegget@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

Switched to these after years of boxers and a stint with regular briefs. Duluth is my brand of choice but regardless the separation/support is a complete game changer.

[–] Stegget@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

I confidently confused a CRM with CMS, and then spent the next four months on my new job frantically working to understand how a CRM works. Lol I figured it out, mainly because nobody before me had taken the time to do so.

[–] Stegget@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

That's the thing about abusive relationships, when you're in them long enough you're often manipulated to the point where the abuser makes you think your actions are the problem. Making me question reality, and myself was her modus operandi. Looking back yeah, there were plenty of red flags, but I also had such a low opinion of myself I accepted the kind of relationship I felt I deserved, until she pushed me past my breaking point. Having a kid also complicated matters; seemed like that was a major turning point in her narcissistic abusive descent. Then you sprinkle on a little sunk cost fallacy and you've got a recipe for disaster.

[–] Stegget@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'll spare the details and just give you the highlights:

  • She put me through years of domestic abuse, gaslighting and manipulation
  • She had zero regard for our family's financial future and nearly pushed us to the brink of bankruptcy
  • She walked out on me and our son to become a literal crack whore

Heed my words, dudes: if you must have a joint checking account, have your direct deposit go to an account only in your name. I didn't and she cleaned me out to buy crack.

[–] Stegget@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Got married. 0/10 would not recommend.

[–] Stegget@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

My S21 is on the verge of losing regular security updates, and I hate it. The battery is fine, the camera is more than adequate, I do not want to upgrade.