You don't have a "claim", you have an anti-christian (and anti-relgious) bias I suspect I couldn't talk you out of with a time-travelling phone box and a univerally-translating fish.
I hope whatever hurt you can't hurt you anymore, and that you find love and joy in your life.
It wasn't an ad hominem attack. It was a genuine statement of fraternal love, as Jesus taught His followers to strive for.