Selfhosted

The problem is when you upgrade

Avoiding eye contact while glancing at traefik and authelia

Netplan alone disqualifies Ubuntu as a "friendly stable starter distro"

OP didnt mention anything about stability. Just ease of use.

In which way do you find podman hard?

I’ve used Ubuntu Server, without any problems

If it works for you then great. But it doesn’t stand with your goal of Corporate Independence and Willingness to Learn — Given that it is slightly easier to setup than Vanilla Debian. But at the end of the day it is just Corporate Debian with more up-to date packages but overall less stable than Vanilla Debian.

upkeep and electricity costs of having your own hardware at home

It really won’t be much unless you’re gonna go for extremely beefy hardware like for Jellyfin hosting hundreds of newer codec 4k files with HDR and shit with dozens of users or some LLM — which anyways still would be cheaper than renting a VPS. Otherwise even a Raspberry Pi can do a decent job or even a mini pc (with something like Intel N100) which draws less power than a Mobile Phone charger. It also aligns with the idea of beginner friendly setup than using a VPS which half the people will even skip reading the Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policies. So hosting something like Immich or Nextcloud, which is not encrypted at rest, is pretty much available for the VPS provider at instant.

convenience of a public IP

You don’t need a public IP to self-host. A beginner should start with private at first, learn from there and gain and grow otherwise it can lead to security risks — e.g you have mentioned to self-host Immich which doesn’t have any native 2FA. The self-hoster then will have to know about SSO based logins to secure instances like these.

use a dynamic DNS provider to get around

You also have Cloudflare Tunnel, Tailscale. Or you can use a 5$/month VPS in this instance to self-host Pangolin with Crowdsec for public access and block malicious or suspicious IPs. All of these options will mask your real public IP.

The guide was focused on being as simple and convenient as possible, with the target audience being absolute beginners

Ok but this asks for a lot of upfront investment. You don’t need to buy a domain or a VPS as a beginner (or even a mini PC as I mentioned). Just start with a PC or a Laptop you already own. Host the service and access it via private IPs instead of handholding them to copy and paste commands, configs and compose files from the internet (although you do have mentioned official documentation so kudos for that) just for the convenience of public access. A lot of people don’t know the 3-2-1 backup rule. One error might wipe off their entire Immich Library, Password Vaults or important documents in Nextcloud.

Right, I self-host email and have done for ten years or more, but I don't do it out of a server at home. Does my Postfix not count as selfhosting any more?

I'm ambivalent as to who uses the term and how, but a deviation from the general consensus of its definition might cause confusion for newcomers to the field who can't make the distinction. That said, I enjoyed OPs post and appreciate the time they put into it.

Homelab on the other hand is not synonymous with self-hosted infrastructure and services, as its intended use is not for production workloads.

I think I want to do a coding / dev blog and hope that some comments help me explore other ways to write code that's why I'm thinking of allowing comments. Thoughts?

I think I want to do a coding / dev blog and hope that some comments help me explore other ways to write code that's why I'm thinking of allowing comments. Thoughts on this? Also, discus might work. Thank!

You should check out the official 11ty images plugin if you haven't already. Itll generate multiple sizes for your output. Its the best feature imo.