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He's always wore sketchers. Like since he was 4. Recently, he got really emotionally taking about shoes he wanted for middle school. He said if he doesn't get Nikes he's going to get teased. Great fucking marketing work Nike.

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[–] Dorkyd68@lemmy.world 190 points 1 day ago (4 children)

It's not a Nike thing. It's a kid thing. Kids are dicks, sorry

[–] DistrictSIX@lemmy.zip 54 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

Is that why Apple has got the US by the balls because people want to avoid the dreaded green bubble in iMessage? I'm not from the US so that might be me misunderstanding the situation, but I've been told that even many adults in the US view that as a valid reason to avoid anything that's not an iphone, because of some social stigma attached to the green bubble.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As far as I hear every time: Yep

  • A european
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[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When I was a kid, there was a phase where everyone was obsessed with red flannel. Went on for like 3 months.

Imagine a pro dominantly black/Latino school in the hood where we're all dressing up like Al Borland from Home Improvement.

It's both. Kids suck and can be clique-like over the dumbest things. But these corporations also realize the amount they can make when their brand is a "status symbol", and they purposely market around that.

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[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 61 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I got teased for my shoes. I got better shoes, I got teased for my jacket, I got a better jacket. So then they just made shit up to tease me about.

I saw the fucker that bullied me relentlessly for all three years in middle school about 10 years later. He was pounding stakes in the ground setting up for a carnival. He stopped me in apologized which was kind of surprising. I gave him an absolutely hollow but convincing thanks and what about my day.

I did a little light internet stalking, turns out he's vocal that can't keep a job, construction companies fire him for "no reason" and he's now down to whatever local company will hire him for physical labor. The only truly sad part is he has multiple children with multiple women and will not own up to any of them.

Though, I really suppose I owe a lot of who I am to the hell he put me through. Insults mean fuck all to me and I can ignore stress in a bad situation and make solid decisions.

[–] anachrohack@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My elementary school bully got hit by a car and it ended his college basketball career

[–] DangedIfYouDid@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How much did your repairs cost?

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[–] oce@jlai.lu 46 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Did you try to teach him to be proud of his independence and differences? Maybe you can work with him on nice come backs against the teasing.

[–] ElderReflections@fedia.io 82 points 1 day ago (4 children)

As far as I remember (25 years ago), this doesn't work. Kids just don't appreciate witty comebacks

[–] bobs_monkey@lemmy.zip 33 points 1 day ago

If anything they lean in and double down.

[–] TammyTobacco@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It works if they're not comebacks, but actually hurtful insults.

They go hard, you go harder.

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[–] dil@lemmy.zip 33 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Comebacks dont matter when you can just point at the shoes and call him broke (im not a teen anymore but come on guys lol, thats when you fit in to avoid issues or have issues, no magical way out)

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

There is a way out, but it involves not caring what classmates think. That's a high bar for a lot of kids, especially in middle school. Kids have to come to that conclusion on their own. No amount of adults telling them "you shouldn't care" will change things.

By high school I found social success after not caring what others thought. But I had been bullied my whole school experience up til that point, so by high school I had run out of fucks to give. In other words, I learned the hard way, but that's something every teen has to figure out for themselves.

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[–] BorgDrone@feddit.nl 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

But it’s not “his independence” if it wasn’t his choice to buy those shoes. You cannot be proud of your own choices when they weren’t your own choices.

[–] notnotmike@programming.dev 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's actually a really good point you've made here. It's easy to defend the shoes as a parent because you're the one who (1) understands the rationale behind buying them and (2) made the decision to buy them

I wonder if a good decision in this scenario is to just give the child a shoe allowance and let them pick. If they want Nike's they will have to find a pair that fits the budget

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[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 41 points 1 day ago (10 children)

I always knew shoes weren't going to save my kids from bullying, so I got them karate instead.

The bullying still happened, until they decided it was time for it to stop. Then it stopped.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't have kids, but I do have a brother who is young enough to be my child, and I was very happy when he broke the nose of his bully.

That motherfucker had to learn.

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[–] Archangel1313@lemmy.ca 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When I was young (in the late 80's) it was Air Jordans.

But, on top of being teased for not having them, you would also get jumped by kids who wanted to steal them from you.

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[–] 5in1k@lemmy.zip 39 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Happened to me. Got Nikes, got teased because they were not a good enough model. Kids are monsters.

[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 11 points 15 hours ago

Yup. Learned that one back in the 3rd grade. This stuff is hard if you're not experienced enough to know how people work.

On the upside, I learned that one cannot buy their way into other's good graces, especially if they're going to require you to modify your behavior to get there; they're lying and that was never the issue. On the downside: holy shit that hurts once it goes wrong the first time.

As an adult I can also appreciate that there are situations where you can "buy your way in" to a club or status of some sort. IMO, those situations are generally not worth it to begin with, requiring an never-ending stream of cash to keep up appearances. Plus, it surrounds you with other people that also believe, and are invested, in the program. It's a recipe for elitism at best, and a big 'ol grift at worst. Better friends and relationships can be had for $0 everywhere else.

[–] laranis@lemmy.zip 10 points 18 hours ago

Yeah, he's not getting made fun of for his shoes. They're just a convenient target of ridicule. Son is about to learn a life lesson.

I'm sorry. People are shit.

[–] BigTrout75@lemmy.world 32 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I tried, His Mom agreed and already bought him shoes.

[–] BossDj@piefed.social 37 points 1 day ago

One of mine is in high school, and as much as I hate the confirming culture, especially because it's led by morons and marketing, I choose the same path. I allowed my (now high school kid) to participate in all the awful crap that I would never do myself when she felt middle school pressure. She was in the popular kids group.

The caveat has been it all comes with extreme education from my end. Not demeaning or condescending. I over-preach about marketing/ads/influencers and constantly question why people make the choices they do. I question everything though. "How do you know that?" often leads back to tick tock.

In my experience, the OTHER kids are now getting smarter as they age. Mine is now able to live her life how she wants and is still with that same group , and the kids (I shit you not) look to her for purchasing advice. The vanity kinda goes away as their brains leave that dumb social hierarchy age.

Note: My kids are/were decked out in Nike. We live by the world headquarters and a good chunk of the kids' parents work there. If that isn't peer pressure, I dunno what is!

[–] LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works 24 points 14 hours ago (4 children)

I don't know if this is a bad idea, but recently all the Chinese manufacturers spoke out about how much the products they make actually cost, you can find the exact warehouse that makes them, and order directly from them, at a ridiculous mark down. Like a 10th of the price, or less. Might be worth some research. I see Adidas sambas for $10, including postage. They're all there. They just don't have the actual name label on them yet, because that's all they do when they reach the distributor, though, so might be useless to you.

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I got bullied in school for having reasonably priced shoes instead of Nike Air Max. Kids are pathetic.

[–] IsThisAnAI@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah this is a Nike problem and not something that's been going on since the beginning of formalized group education.

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[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I went through the same Nike crisis when I was in middle school. Had to have them because my friends had them. Instead I got to joke about my "genuine imitation Nikes" from Kmart.

It's painful for kids that want to fit in because because they don't have the wider and wiser perspective that most of us do as adults.

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[–] hawgietonight@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago

Pre-teen is the worst age for this. Just try to get your kid past this the best you can. Happens everywhere, eventually they will mature and learn.

Heck, this is always the plot in school movies.

[–] FireWire400@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

I always had Chucks, not because I didn't wanna get teased mind you I just thought they were cool. Kids teased me for different things anyway.

But man, they never really lasted that long. One to one and a half years of daily use, and they doubled in price in the last ~15 years (which maybe isn't that much but I feel the quality went down a bit).

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I remember being 4 or 5 back in the 70s, my mom tried to put me in Converse, I refused to wear them calling them "clown shoes". LOL.

I feel vindicated.

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[–] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 17 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

At all the schools my kids went to.... Nobody cares. The kids really don't give a shit what other kids are wearing. In some ways it's bizarre given that wasn't the case when I was a kid. But in many ways it's great. I rarely ever hear of bullying, kids just are themselves.

Of course thats woke, because they actually speak to the kids and tell them to consider others and will not tolerate intolerance. So I expect schools like these are few and far between.

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[–] pleaaaaaze@lemmings.world 15 points 8 hours ago (6 children)

The solution to bullying is to do as the bully says /s

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 13 points 7 hours ago

It seems to be working for America right now.

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[–] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I rock my Skechers, android phone, basic Casio watch, and drive my 2003 Suzuki.

I spend my money on stuff that works. Not stuff that's marketed.

I sense marketing bullshit, and it's such a strong turnoff for me.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You must be the coolest kid in middle school.

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[–] pleaaaaaze@lemmings.world 13 points 8 hours ago

Buy him a crowbar.

Ultimate tool against bullying

[–] MrSpArkle@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Buy him Hokas and have him tell his friends to eat shit.

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[–] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] Nougat@fedia.io 12 points 1 day ago

I love Skechers.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The specific request is kind of interesting - when I was a kid, everyone had to wear Nikes or get teased. However for my kids, Nikes were always out.

Fads always come in cycles

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[–] flop_leash_973@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

No matter if you end up getting him a pair or not. Be sure he understands that such things as bullying people for having the “wrong” shoes is shallow clique nonsense and he should be better than that.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

man, when i was a kid i was bullied for reading at recess, or infodumping about inappropriate stuff, or being bad at running. kids these days are so materialist.

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[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 10 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (4 children)

Instead of getting him 300$ shoes give him the choice of the cool shoes or the latest coolest video game or the shoes, or whatever hobby he enjoys…

Kids tease other kids because they themselves feel insecure.. that’s literally all it is… if you need Nike shoes to feel secure you’re probably not a cool person anyways

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[–] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 9 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

Man I went to a very affluent school and no one gave a shit about what sneakers we had. Unless you had Heeley's of course. ZOOM!

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[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Get him heelys so he can stunt on the haters.

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