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I want to watch a movie that will make me cry.

(Because I need those endorphins to help me with depression. I feel better after a good session of crying. Sorry if this is weird...)

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[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 30 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (3 children)

Everything Everywhere All At Once

This has me all the way from to tears of sadness to tears of joy and really made me feel for the main character. It seems too whimsical to take seriously at first, but if you let it wash over you it rewards you. it can be an incredibly powerful movie and I loved the message.

Also, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. It’s a really sad breakup movie. Lots of emotion. Some of Jim Carry’s best acting.

[–] Bosht@lemmy.world 15 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

EEAAO is truly a masterpiece and I do not say that shit lightly. For all it's multiverse goofiness there really is a solid layer depicting the struggle of women, mother, and girls becoming women. There's also cultural bits obviously as well, and marriage. My god the dad breaks my heart every time. Just good from beginning to end.

[–] quetzaldilla@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago

The dad is just such a good person.

The googly eyes, the silliness, he just wanted to make his family smile.

[–] bizarroland@fedia.io 6 points 14 hours ago

In the original script, they would continue to meet up, fall in love, spend time together and then one or the other of them would erase the other person after which the other person would follow and then they would meet and fall in love again and this repeated until they were old and gray

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[–] pwnicholson@lemmy.world 21 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

"The Secret Life of Walter Mitty" (2013 version) is beautiful and thoughtful. Completely unlike any other Ben Stiller movie that I know of.

"The Fountain" (2006) might qualify too, though it's a lot heavier.

"Amélie" (2001)

"Hector and the Search for Happiness" (2014) is decent too, though I'm a Simon Pegg fan so it gets extra points for that

[–] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 9 points 12 hours ago

The Fountain hits me hard. Especially with that beautiful Clint Mansell soundtrack.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 16 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I saw “What Dreams May Come” in high school and wept the entire way from the theater to the car.

Even met some friends on the way and had to explain I was crying because it was so beautiful.

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

So underrated, always loved that movie. Lots of dark but honest.

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[–] Libb@piefed.social 15 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Not knowing what usually makes you cry and what kind of movies you may enjoy, here are the first movies I know make me cry. Me being a a 50+ years old dude:

  • Somewhere in Time
  • The bicentennial man
  • Love Story.

And those are from Ghibli:

  • When Marnie was There
  • The Tale of the Princess Kaguya
  • From Up on Poppy Hill
  • Only Yesterday
  • The Red Turtle
  • Porco Rosso
[–] sfxrlz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 13 hours ago

Porco Rosso is so Full of melancholy. love the movie.

[–] razorcandy@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

Life is Beautiful

Manchester by the Sea

The Green Mile

My recommendations are more sad than uplifting, but still beautiful and emotional.

[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 4 points 14 hours ago

Mistakenly watched life is beautiful at a drunken party in high school. Still remember everything.

Great movie that I will never watch again.

[–] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Pretty sure this is not the crying OP is looking for

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[–] Ludrol@szmer.info 14 points 11 hours ago

Grave of fireflies - film that you watch only once as it's too sad to watch the second time.

[–] Maestro@fedia.io 14 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

"The Green Mile" made me cry

[–] EvacuateSoul@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] Snowclone@lemmy.world 13 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

"Your Name", anime film about a high school age boy and girl that swap bodies in their sleep, they don't know anything about eachother and have to figure out how to not ruin eachothers lives and relationships, it's very bueatiful, and you'll cry for sure.

[–] Stillwater@sh.itjust.works 11 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

[–] Peter_Arbeitsloser@feddit.org 3 points 8 hours ago

You really want to destroy that poor guy, do you?

[–] CyanideShotInjection@lemmy.world 10 points 5 hours ago

Last movie that made me cry was The Whale. I saw it in a theatre and rarely I had to refrain myself from crying in public this bad. Once I got home though I just bawled my eyes out.

[–] missingno@fedia.io 10 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

A Silent Voice. I watched it while I was going through a rough time, and the visual metaphor used to portray the main character's isolation hit me so hard.

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[–] aether@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

haven't watched a lot of shows that aren't anime so here are my recs:

  1. Your name (movie, its really really good)
  2. A silent voice (movie, same as your name)
  3. Your lie in april (tv series, apparently really good at making you cry but haven't watched it)
  4. Anohana: The flower we saw that day (tv series, same as your lie in april)

your name and a silent voice have really good animation btw

i almost cried during weathering with you which is a movie in the same universe as your name but it isn't as emotional as your name ig

[–] CyanideShotInjection@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

Can confirm Your Lie In April made me cry like a baby. But I would say anime wise Violet Evergarden was even more cathartic. I ugly cried more than once watching it.

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[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 9 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

The Wild Robot is well worth a watch. It looks like a kids movie, but I think the themes work just as well if not better for adults.

[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

There are some moments in that which are pretty brutal and I was like, "Oh wow... Not sure if my kid should be watching this yet..." but it was an incredible film.

[–] mysticpickle@lemmy.ca 8 points 14 hours ago

Not so much a movie but you should watch The Last of Us up to the first 3 episodes. I got through Episode 3 and it had me in tears the whole day 😭

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[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 7 points 13 hours ago (2 children)
  • Big Fish
  • Up!
  • Toy Story 3
  • Onward
  • Last of the Mohicans
  • When Marnie was There (Ghibli)
  • About Time
[–] SassyRamen@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

If you like Big Fish you should watch Five People You Meet in Heaven (not a religious movie)

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] turtlesareneat@discuss.online 5 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Came here to say what dreams may come, Beautiful but unbelievably sad movie that you will not want to rewatch.

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[–] jimmux@programming.dev 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Two movies that usually appear on lists like this, but I don't see them: The Fountain, and The Fall.

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[–] LogicalDrivel@sopuli.xyz 6 points 4 hours ago

First movie that popped into my head was What Dreams May Come. Robin Williams goes through heaven and hell to try and save his wife's soul. Great flick with some amazing visuals (especially for the time).

[–] temporal_spider@lemm.ee 6 points 14 hours ago

I sob like a baby when I watch Practical Magic (Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman.) Same with Disney's Moana. Neither movie is really advertised as bring particularly deep or philosophical, but both of them have more profundity than appears on the surface. PM is about love, death, and family. Moana is about determination, joy, and redemption. Big emotions.

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 5 points 2 hours ago

I can't believe nobody has said Coco. I dare anyone to get through the end without at least a tear or two.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 5 points 9 hours ago

Not a movie but rather a season, Your Lie in April. It's around a 7 hour series so sorta super deluxe extended edition movie adjacent if you're up for that. Fireflies and Silent Voice have already been mentioned, this is the honorary third place in my opinion.

[–] Bosht@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

Interstellar Suzume A Silent Voice - guaranteed to fuck you up Grave of the Fireflies

Idk, all these movies make me cry but for different reasons. The last two will sincerely fuck you up if you are any sort of empath.

I get you man, sometimes I need a good cry as well. I'm telling you though...A Silent Voice is a doozy.

[–] Nomad@infosec.pub 4 points 12 hours ago

Never cried in a movie. Then I watched "Marley" (my friend Marley in German)

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 4 points 11 hours ago

Username checks out. Also try Your Name.

[–] Lemonzinger@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

Atonement

And agree on Big Fish, and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I have not seen this film in decades, but I remember it being quite lovely, it is a Serbian film called "Black Cat, White Cat":

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Cat,_White_Cat


This next film will not make you cry, but it is an amazingly brilliant romantic adventure comedy, Those Magnificent Men In Their Flying Machines:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Those_Magnificent_Men_in_Their_Flying_Machines

[–] executivechimp@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 13 hours ago

I don't remember much about Black Cat White Cat but I remember enjoying it.

[–] PodPerson@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 hours ago

Tree of Life

Arrival

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today 3 points 14 hours ago

Martian

Armageddon

[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 3 points 3 hours ago

What's going to hit will be a bit dependent on where your soft spots are.

Kids: Grave of the Fireflies or Bridge to Teribithea or My Girl or The Cure

Romantic love: The Fountain

Existential trauma: Psycho-Pass (series) or A.I.

Dogs: Marley & Me or Hachi

Loss: Up

Also:

River

[–] snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] Semjaza@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 8 hours ago

I cried with The Mitchells Vs. The Machines.

Think I teared up at another film recently, but can't recall what it was. Sorry. That's one I watched I know got me weeping, though. I'll cry over anything intergenerational these days.

[–] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

For stoic men (and maybe women, who knows?) Captain Phillips... but not till the end. It sneaks up on you.

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[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 3 points 14 hours ago

Chariots of fire.

[–] Quazatron@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

If you are in a hurry, try Up.

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