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Toxic Masculinity (lemmy.world)

submitted 5 days ago by Stamets@lemmy.world to c/whitepeopletwitter@sh.itjust.works

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[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago

Good to see some nuance and reflection in a Lemmy comment section :)

Tbh, not all jealousy is misdirected. My ex did a ton of inappropriate-but-not-cheating things with other guys and told me that she was close to cheating on two occasions. Didn't exactly make me feel secure in the relationship and I did tell her that I felt uncomfortable with what she was doing. She ended up actually cheating with one of these guys.

I've been with my wife for ~10 years now, and I never felt any bit of jealousy with her at all, ever. I can just trust her and I do.

So apparently, it's not a me-problem here.