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Dunno how else to call it. Got me a job. It's not a bad job. I like the work I do, I tolerate the people there, the hours are not long, it's unionised so they can't harrass me when I'm off the clock, it pays the bills I got.

.... But god damn. Once I'm home I lack the drive to do literally anything.

I've stopped going to gym, I often eat junk cuz I just don't wanna cook, even my hobbies are being left to gather dust. After working my 9-to-5 I just wanna lie down and rot until it's work time again.

So the question is, how do the better-adjusted adults handle this?

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 4 points 1 week ago (11 children)

A lot of it is just figuring out a new routine. Once you do, and you work that routine for a couple of weeks, it will feel weird to NOT hit the gym after work a few times a week.

[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

This is a fucking lie. I work out to keep my blood pressure down and I HATE it. Every fucking day I hate it. "IT wIlL feEL WeIrD NOT tO HiT tHe gYm-" fuck off. No it doesn't. Every second I'm at the gym I wish I could be laying down relaxing. It also doesn't get easier. Oh the workouts do, but the motivation to go? The awful post-workout routine of being exhausted and needing to shower but STILL having to cook and do all the household chores that need to get done that day? The desire to do ANYTHING else besides go to the gym? That does NOT get easier.

I'm so fucking tired of working out. If I didn't have blood pressure issues, there is no way in hell I would subject myself to that BS 5/7 days of the week. There is no enjoyment from this activity. People talk about post-workout endorphins and I feel like they have to be bullshitting because I've never felt anything of the sort. Just a vague relief that it's over... At least for that day.

[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

If I didn't have blood pressure issues, there is no way in hell I would subject myself to that BS 5/7 days of the week

You shouldn't necessarily ever expect to enjoy doing something that you're essentially forced to do. The gym is kinda like work for you so its perfectly reasonable that you hate it.

I love playing guitar and working on music but if I was ever forced to do it daily I would start hating it real quick. This is why I avoid monetization routes for my music that would require adhering to a routine.

When it comes to the gym, I've certainly gotten well into it to the point that it feels weird not to go. Same with running, but even more potent. I'd actually be in a shit mood if I had to skip a scheduled run for some reason.

Its a real bummer that you're struggling to enjoy the gym, but I totally understand where you're coming from. Life is busy and sometimes all that I have the bandwidth for is a beer on the couch after work. We all have our limits and that's OK.

Glad to hear you're pushing through it for the sake of your health. There's likely no better reason to hit the gym. 💪

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