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Women are not fragile helpless creatures.
Going to a public place on a date is not something that you need to bring the whole crew for.
The way that he, (I'm assuming he), stated his response is inflammatory, but I agree with the concept behind it.
I cannot envision a path towards a healthy relationship that starts off with that much distrust, and if that were presented to me, I would assume that the two girls have conspired together to get free meals out of a simp rather than to actually start a relationship.
So that would be why it's a no-go for me.
You're right. They're not fragile and helpless.
You know how women protect themselves? How they demonstrate their strength and ability to help themselves?
By bringing other people when meeting strangers who are statistically likely to be larger and stronger than they are, and 60% more likely to commit a violent crime!
If you can't figure out the difference between "I distrust unknown men" and "I distrust you" then you have a hell of a lot to learn, dude :/
This is how you get lied to. This is how you wind up shocked when they reveal later that they had a friend nearby. Because they can't even trust you not to judge them for prioritizing their own safety.
You are the problem.
You don't know me at all, so accusing me of being the problem is silly, lol.
Your responses have told me everything I need to know. This one isn't hard to discern.
The content of your statements are actively perpetuating the problem right now. Therefore, you are the problem.
Not super complicated.
I'm not questioning your intent. But the results speak for themselves.