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[–] _cnt0@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I criticized singular they/them for increasing language ambiguity and suggested replacing it with something new like xe/xer multiple times. The reply is usually a shitstorm and downvote tornado. I've given up on that front.

[–] UnpledgedCatnapTipper@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Probably because singular "they" predates singular "you" grammatically. Should we go back to using thou and thee instead of the singular you as well?

[–] waddle_dee@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago

I always found this argument funny because how would you use pronouns for someone whose gender you do not know? They. It's they. E.g. you are given the sentence: Jordan went to the store to buy apples. And you want to ask a followup question regarding how many, you reply: How many apples did they buy? It's not that complicated. They has been used for gender ambiguity in everyone's lives since grammar school. People just have an inherent bias towards trans folks and it's incredibly depressing and sad.