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Past experience. Past knowledge. The more often than not correct belief that people don't really change. If the norm is that a cheater is always a cheater, and you see a friend who was hurt by a cheater get back with them, it is only natural to warn that friend.
Simple as that really. I wish you luck getting through it, but if you truly feel there is no chance of a repeat performance and your bf believes you, why care about well intentioned warnings?
right but the norm is already changing on so many other issues why is this an exception ?
Now it's the norm for women to work, couples to not have kids, women to not change their last names.
We are not in a traditional relationship. I do onlyfans for one, I pay him a portion of that to live in his house that he owns. Traditionally a dwelling like this would be co owned by both people int he relationship or at least he would let his woman stay there for free but I am consistent and I know it's not fair for me to demand tradition compliance out of him but be progressive personally because it benefits him
You seem deeply affected by them caring now and not before. Are you worried they will convince him? If not then they will eventually see it worked itself out and stop caring. If not, well they aren't involved in your relationship so what do they matter? Not everybody will like you, it's wasted energy to try and make that the goal.