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Not just uncaught murderers, there are a lot of people who have killed without legally being considered murderers.

People who killed people in accidents such as driving accidents or hunting accidents

People who killed in self defense

Soldiers who killed enemy soldiers

Executioners

Police officers who have killed on duty

Doctors and nurses who have made mistakes that accidentally killed patients

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[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I knew a guy who got imprisoned for murder, really nice guy, the way he described it was an armed robbery where the armed person got spooked and fired off a shot. They were arrested on the road while taking the victim to the hospital (they weren't trying to hurt anyone) and ended up getting booked for murder and kidnapping.

I met him a few years after he got out on probation.

Edit: fixed a typo

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 3 points 2 days ago

Unless you live in a civilised country where guns aren’t everywhere and not everyone is a war vet.

[–] rikudou@lemmings.world 3 points 4 days ago

Yeah, my teacher, killed one of his students, her grandma and grandpa (only one of them, one was wounded).

[–] brown567@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

Yup, I know someone who was in a car accident and the other driver was killed

[–] radix@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Yes, but I haven't seen him since he killed two people, partially because he's been in prison for the last ~28 years.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago

What about it?

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Went to high school with one.

I went to high school with at least six. I say “at least” because those are just the four I know about. Two killed people with their car, three went into the military right after graduating and did combat tours. Talking with them afterwards, it was clear they had 100% seen combat and killed people. And the last just straight up shanked a dude at a local fast food place during a drug deal.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I know I have. Back in 2010 or thereabouts, this guy at work who I trained to run the shift opposite of me is now in prison for multiple murders.

Anyone from Poland remember the case in the news about a guy murdering people so he could take over their property? Yeah, that one..

EDIT: Just for the record, I've known many poles over the years, and I've liked most of you. Except that guy. He was fucking weird. Don't remember his exact name, but he went by Winnie/Vinny, or something like that.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago

I was in the US Army for 6 years, soo there is that.

I grew up poor white trash in the US south, soo there is that.

[–] kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I have no knowledge of encountering such person, also i never met anyone who owns a gun

[–] OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I met the guy who killed my best friend. At her funeral. He was her boyfriend. He got her addicted to drugs. Technically she killed herself by OD-ing, but had he never got her addicted she’d still be alive today. I couldn’t face him. He tried to talk to be and just walked away.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That may be true in the US.
Most of these reasons don't apply to normal more civilized countries

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Some do.

Soldiers who killed enemy soldiers

Starting to get more likely in Eastern Europe now than the US I'd say. Never know when you might run into a former Russian or Ukrainan soldier.

People who killed in self defense

Probably less likely outside of the US since no guns, but assault is still a thing and you can kill an assailant without a gun.

Doctors and nurses who have made mistakes that accidentally killed patients

This is universal.

People who killed people in accidents such as driving accidents or hunting accidents

So is this.

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[–] BurnedDonutHole@ani.social 3 points 2 days ago

I've been a lawyer for over 20 years... So, I've met more than a couple.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Used to work with the criminally insane. I've also met a LOT of pedophiles. Not many because they actually were crazy but because they were trying to get declared as such to not get fucked up in prison. Most of them aren't even actually attracted to children they just wanna victimize someone and children are smaller / weaker and less able to advocate for themselves. The one thing pretty much all of them have in common is a pitiful combination of sadism and cowardice.

[–] oppy1984@lemdro.id 2 points 2 days ago

I know two that I can verify. One is a combat vet who had to kill during a fire fight in Iraq. The other is an outlaw biker who I went to school with, he shot a rival club member and a few years later got caught on a trafficking charge and somehow the police were able to connect him to the murder after his arrest. He's obviously in prison now. It's weird to know that after he committed the murder we reconnected and hung out a few times, there I was sitting at a bar laughing and joking with a killer without even knowing it.

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Yeah, I think I've met 3 murderers, two before they murdered, one after the fact.

One was mentally unstable and sad, then made fun of, second I met was kind and normal, third was dumb bulky drug dealer that was also kind.

None of them were evil or psychopaths or any of those typical traits and it made me think that to become a murdered you have to be both unlucky and triggered in a meaningful way.

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