I have three teenage daughters who are currently not allowed on social media. But I want to give them some ability before they become adults. My eldest gave me a PowerPoint presentation on why she should be allowed on Snapchat, lol.

She made some good points. Her friend group has a group text and she wants to keep up with everyone but doesn’t want to get the ding notifications constantly.

Feels like a good opportunity for a Fediverse platform. Like a closed Mastodon/Pixelfed server and have some parental controls. Any projects out there?

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[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 2 weeks ago

Not the most related, but if Instagram becomes an issue, there is an Instagram patched app which is DMs only

[–] thirtyfold8625@thebrainbin.org 1 points 2 weeks ago

For real-time communication, the most suitable solutions are probably documented around https://www.privacyguides.org/en/real-time-communication/ (note that email is not recommended for person-to-person conversations).

[–] thirtyfold8625@thebrainbin.org 1 points 2 weeks ago

When do you think you should allow a child to have an email address? A Fediverse account is basically an email account, except that the primary inbox is shared with a lot of people rather than only one person (and the same goes for any social media account). If you wouldn't allow someone to use an email address, you probably shouldn't allow them to use a Fediverse account either.

At least one person who seems interested in the health of children expressed that "delaying children’s access to smartphones until high school and social media platforms until 16" is a good idea. https://www.anxiousgeneration.com/ https://jonathanhaidt.com/social-media/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0MXgA2sSn8

[–] DrunkAnRoot@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

matrix synapse good learning expierance on how the internet works and is more closed then snapchat so less risks

[–] riverSpirit@thelemmy.club -2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

If you were my parent, I would have actively resented for the rest of my life from you for destroying my social life like that. Communicating with peers and engaging with them in their 3rd spaces is essential life learning.

And the next step would be finding ways to circumvent your ridiculous rules.

You’re not going to create a perfect adult free from social media use. You’re going to create an adult who doesn’t want to know you because you’re a control freak.

You’re the equivalent of those Christian nuts removing Harry Potter books from their kids for promoting devil worship.

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