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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 58 points 4 days ago (11 children)

Seems like there's plenty of entitled wealthy people in this thread. People who don't understand what it's like to be systemically pushed down into the mud; what it's like when all of your choices are either bad or worse.

"But you can recycle..." Shut the fuck up dude, recycling doesn't feed my fucking family. Recycling doesn't replace the years spent in an education system that's designed to make you a factory worker. Recycling doesn't bring living-wage-paying jobs to my hometown.

When the bills are in the mail, the tax man is coming, the landlord's raising the rent, and the bossman is driving a new car every year but can't pay you enough to keep your bank account from overdrafting, sometimes you have to do "immoral" shit.

Sometimes you have to kill an animal with no hunting license, sometimes you have to find a place to stay warm for the night, sometimes you have to feed your kids when all you have is cardboard and that might mean stealing bread from the dollar store.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago (1 children)

warning satireAre you sure your not just being lazy? Maybe it was the choices you made that landed you there. It's not like there is a whole system in place to oppress a certain class of people.

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I cannot believe that you're being downvoted. This place disappoints me.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I was told I'm a politician in another thread so... yeah I don't know man.

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Looks like the consensus finally turned around somewhat

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[–] carlossurf@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago

This is true and I am saying that as someone who is well off, the movie parasite talks about this great. Its easy to be a nice person when your rich

[–] idriss@lemm.ee 9 points 3 days ago

I remember the millionaire who wanted to prove that he could rebuild his wealth if he started from scratch again. He cheated a little bit because he used his friend apartment for free.

Fast forward, he gave up after a couple of months and understood what the rest of us knew for ages.

Wealthy people are delusional and no amount of reasoning will work with them.

[–] cabinet_sanchez@midwest.social 4 points 3 days ago (6 children)

That's the problem with this entire post. Who is saying any of this? Whose morals are we talking about? If you can just as easily recycle something as throw it in the trash and you choose not to recycle because your rent is too high and your boss is a piece of shit, that's just nonsense. On the other hand, as a vegan, I personally do not have any moral objection to you illegally hunting animals for food if that's the only access to food you have. What is the point of any of this, is this some kind of vaguebooking about some other post?

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Giving a shit about recycling is mentally taxing. One of the worst parts of being poor is the mental strain of uncertainty inherent in your life which makes long-term planning and delaying gratification increasingly difficult. Any ounce of willpower you have needs to be spent maintaining or improving your situation, not used up doing things that have literally no impact on your life.

This is why veganism is typically seen by poor people as an extravagant virtue signal of wealthy people. Poor people may choose to eat fewer animal products because they are expensive - but few would turn down a free well cooked steak. Caring about animal rights or the environment is something only the wealthy have the mental bandwidth to do - telling a poor person that they should do these things only serves to alienate them.

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[–] Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee 33 points 3 days ago

I think it was Mark Twain who said that in order for a man to be moral he needs to be well-fed first.

[–] Lembot_0002@lemm.ee 17 points 5 days ago (11 children)
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[–] theparadox@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My interpretation of this might be different, but I agree wholeheartedly with my interpretation.

Being morally just doesn't just mean "not causing harm" directly. It means striving to not cause harm both directly and indirectly. As someone who lives in the USA, our entire society is built off of exploitation. The less expensive something is, the more heavy the exploitation likely is. The cheapest manufacturing is done in countries where labor is exploited or even enslaved, where the manufacturing process can pollute and poison the area with little consequence (to the manufacturer), and where the powerful can force deals on the government to let them extract valuable resources and pay a fraction of its value - depriving the locals and nation prosperity. Even when buying US food products, the food industry mostly relies on extremely poor conditions for the animals it keeps, taking advantage of farmers it buys from or employs, and may even employ migrant children for dangerous slaughterhouse labor.

Avoiding these kinds of practices throughout most supply chains is sometimes impossible and usually more expensive the more thoroughly you manage to avoid the practices. Even then someone has to check in and constantly verify that the practices are legitimately avoided and not just greenwashing or fraudulent.

It's really quite depressing.

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[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

According to Lemmy poor people who have done not harm to others have the same morals that poor people that hurt others.

I personally know a homeless person that have never steal or hurt. And several poor people with homes but small income that have stab and stolen other people, probably justifying their shit behavior in being poor.

According to some out of touch lemmings those two people are morally equivalent.

Being poor doesn't justify being a shit person. And defending that is insulting to honest and moral poor people.

[–] Railcar8095@lemm.ee 7 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I guess you can always find "some" people that can fit with your strawman, doesn't really make it a valid argument.

"Some people" on Lemmy think the earth is flat. "Some" are pedophiles. "Some" are even Republicans. That doesn't mean they are correct or common.

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[–] bunkyprewster@startrek.website 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Honestly, rich people are pretty shitty themselves.

[–] mogranja@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago

But not for lack of choice, that's the point here.

[–] forkDestroyer@infosec.pub 8 points 3 days ago

I understand where you're coming from, because many societies are being structured in ways that make it feel like you are only hurting yourself by not being just and moral. It's truly horrible when trying to live a life following "the good" puts you in the path of pain all the time, working jobs you don't want to afford not to be put out on the street (and God forbid you want to have kids if you're in a high cost of living area).

With all that being said: I'd fear becoming an evil person more than dying poor. I hope that we can work together to make a world that isn't run by greedy, bad people.

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