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Toxic Masculinity (lemmy.world)

submitted 5 days ago by Stamets@lemmy.world to c/whitepeopletwitter@sh.itjust.works

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[–] Initiateofthevoid@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Her guy friends are only friends with her because they want to fuck her.

It's not misogyny to think other men would try to fuck your girlfriend.

Even if you can be correct in a given individual assessment within the context of your own life, you made a broad, unconditional statement where you intrinsically assumed the guy you've never met is correct in his assumptions about multiple friendships you have no knowledge of.

It's not mysogyny to be wary of the intentions of other men. It's mysogyny to assume all intergender friendships are exclusively sexual. For all you know, the boyfriend in the OP is just deeply insecure.

Edit - besides, it really doesn't matter what other men "would try," unless you have reason to believe the person in question is dangerous and will act without consent. If you think she will cheat on you, that's an issue with your relationship, not her friendships with others.