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Auction: https://www.sav.com/auctions/details/7073489/hexbear.net

Not sure what will happen, but seems to be a Fediverselore event for sure

Update: post from hexbear admin on chapo.chat: https://chapo.chat/post/4468531

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[–] Telodzrum@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago (13 children)

Just social media posting your way to praxis? That’s a hell of a form of “mutual aid.”

[–] _lunar@lemmy.ml -1 points 4 weeks ago (11 children)

what cowbee said, and you dorks trying to get the domain to redirect hexbear to sexually explicit or otherwise useless shit are just making it that much harder for the numerous palestinians, trans people, unhoused people, etc. who have come to rely on c/mutual_aid.

good to know that owning the "tankies" is more important to you dweebs than letting us continue to help them. i really hope you're proud of yourselves.

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

I think anyone trying to buy the domain and redirect it as some kind of joke is dumb and I don't support that.

But I'm curious how the vetting process works for c/mutual aid. How can you be sure that the money is going to people who actually need it, as opposed to people who are playing a part to garner your sympathy?

I've poked around hexbear from time to time and I remember a certain Palestinian family that was receiving fairly substantial aid. That appeared fairly legit to me, although it's still extremely difficult to be sure.

But the people who need help with rent, or help paying their phone bill, or whatever random sob story they might come up with, I view with inherent suspicion.

Have you ever considered that it might be a much more efficient use of your resources to actually walk around wherever you live and give food and blankets directly to the unhoused? To volunteer at a local soup kitchen or homeless shelter?

Sending anonymous strangers money over the internet has a very large chance of going to the wrong people who are adept at manipulating others but not actually in the most need. It has a very large chance of funding self destructive behaviors of mentally ill people that ultimately drive the individual further into poverty and misery. Just something to think about.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml -1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The mutual_aid comm literally saved me from being homeless and losing my pet cats that I've had for 10 years.

It has a very large chance of funding self destructive behaviors of mentally ill people that ultimately drive the individual further into poverty and misery.

Fuck you Nancy Grace. "Don't give that homeless man money! He'll use it on drugs"

What's the worse problem? Someone getting something 'they don't deserve' or someone not getting something they need to live?

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

That's great, good for you.

I think drugs are great, but they can be very harmful for people who are already mentally unstable. I deal with homeless people frequently, and in many cases, abusing drugs is a major problem for them and giving them money just perpetuates a self destructive cycle that eventually ends with them dying before their time.

Someone not getting something they need to live is the worse problem, which is why sending your charity off into the interwebs with hopes and prayers that it has a positive impact is a very naive and lazy way of doing things. You should be making sure that it helps those who are most desperate, and the only way to ensure that is to do your giving IRL.

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