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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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I hear these comments for not wanting to help people, and it feels like we're worshipping individuality to the detriment of community, which is necessary for survival.

  • "I don't want my money going to ___ ."
  • "This is not a democracy, it's a constitutional republic!"
  • "You don't have any freedoms under socialism/communism."
  • "They're just looking for a handout because they're lazy."
  • "I'm a self-made man. I didn't need anyone's help."
  • "Empathy is not a virtue."
  • "I don't see how that's my problem."
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[–] iltoroargento@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Replacing godheads and debating minute dogmatic differences between colonizer/authoritarian religions is not going to change things for the better. We've been doing that for millennia.

Emphasizing historical learning and perspectives from the breadth of the world as well as modern civic humanist principles in our communities sounds a lot more effective to me than replacing one fictitious narcissistic sky daddy with another. Go peddle your ancient brainrot elsewhere.

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 0 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

I really don't think "we" have, certainly the West hasn't (with even the term "sky daddy" showing the clear anthropomorphic nature of God in the Western man's mind, because amoral paganism/polytheism never left, it was just superficially transformed...). The vast majority of people won't hold themselves accountable when the pleasures of this world are too enticing if they don't feel like they'll be unavoidably held accountable by a higher power. With discernment, integrity, selflessness and a clear heart it's possible to do so to a certain/great extent, but these traits are secondary in the West, where overpowering violence, trickery and the capacity to acquire goods and satisfy yourself are paramount. But whatever, I guess we'll see.

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

I personally think people who do things because they fear retribution from sky daddy are the weakest of minds easily exploited by propaganda. Religious thought leads to malleable minds easily exploitable by religious leaders.

Religion is not the source of our social bounds and morality rather a parasite of control left over from ancient times. A vestigial organ that no longer has a use in the face of science but lives on in the body regardless.

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Religion is not the source of our social bounds and morality rather a parasite of control left over from ancient times.

Not the person you're replying to, but I'm an atheist or an agnostic and even I'm not so sure about that.

When given the idea that there is no retribution or reprocussion for their actions, many people become nihilistic and act terribly.

I agree that it's weak to need a "sky daddy" to act properly, but many people are weak.

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

There is good scientific evidence that people do not think about the consequences of their actions before they commit to them.

Criminals don't think of the punishment they will receive by society but suddenly a far removed sky daddy will convince them not to rob a store? This is not how any of this works.

Morality is developed by our social bounds, otherwise every agnostic or atheist would be wildly out of control.

People are mentally weak because of religion, not despite it. It is the antithesis to critical thinking. The lack of critical thought is why our society is so easy to control.

I have seen this play out countless times in my life where people realize how fucked up their religion was once they have left it.

As their eyes open and they realize that they were being controlled by their religious leaders who abused them, they have to wrestle with the life that was stolen from them.

I am even to the point now where I no longer believe certain people need religion anymore. They need community and a sense of belonging and religious leaders like to highjack that basic need for their own selfish interests.

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I am even to the point now where I no longer believe certain people need religion anymore. They need community and a sense of belonging and religious leaders like to highjack that basic need for their own selfish interests.

I think I agree with basically everything you've said here and especially this conclusion. The problem is that for many the only type of these things they can find is couched in religion. As a child-free atheist, I basically have no sense of belonging nor a community.

In addition, some people's only exposure to even the very concept of morality or ethics comes through religion.

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

You have a community here which is probably more real and fulfilling than going to a church service. Here we are having a discussion you would never get in a typical church. We are both thinking together, discussing, without any authority to tell us otherwise.

Our sense of right and wrong simply don't come from religion. It initially comes from our familial bounds but is reinforced through our many interactions with our social groups.

You can see this in gangsters that believe in God, but also will deal drugs and shoot each other. Their morality is determined by their social group, not their belief in religion.

As I said. I used to believe like you that religion is needed by some people, but I have begun to doubt this premise.